TOPIC: The Talk - previous cocks...

Great discussion men. All very good points.

MustGetBigger wrote: Honzee, curious if you did what mustang said and watch some big Dick porn with your girl to see her reactions

Haven't had the opportunity yet. Life's been crazy but it's on my agenda...

PetePete wrote: No way!!!! It mind fugged me. I've been married for almost 10 years and it still pops into my head every once in a while.

Like you asked her years ago and still bothers you?

I think id be the same way... But still want to know but not at the same time.. double edged sword.

Either the average for penis size is much larger than statistically believed, the women we are sleeping with are having dozens of previous
lovers, or the women are lying (or at least exaggerating) about the endowments of their previous lovers.
I personally believe that many women will exaggerate the size of their previous lovers as a means of controlling us. If we ask them about the "size" of their previous lovers, they know that this is a vulnerable point for us and she will use it to her advantage.
If you were the biggest and best lover she ever had (and she tells you this), then you are holding a lot of cards...But if she has you second guessing yourself, then she is in control.
Just my 2 cents



And just a side note...How is that any women would be so callous as to talk about how "huge" their previous ex lovers were with somebody they are in an intimate relationship with? Could you imagine if a woman asked you how her vagina felt? Would you say wistfully , "well, I have had much tighter" .
Women are very aware of the penis size insecurity men have...It''s all over the Internet , penis size pill, enhancement, viagra, etc....if she asked you if her breasts were big enough, would you be as boneheaded as to say, "Well my last girlfriend had 'F' cups, my nickname for her was 'big guns'"?
There is such a double standard for men to have to measure up in this regard...

Worst question you can ask....
I have a very decent sized penis now but my steady girlfriend with me has never indicated to me that it is anything but average. I'm curious but it would screw me up (even more than I am now) big time if she has had bigger. Her ex husband was 6 feet, five inches tall and muscular...My feeling is that there is very little chance that she'll tell me he was "tiny".

Mustang2020 wrote:

Honzee wrote: If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

You really want to know how to get her to tell you her real sexual desires?

Whats that bro?

This is a terrible question to ask. I made that mistake too many times. Everyone of my exs has said they've had bigger making me always question whether or not I'm big enough for them. One girl said her ex was nicknamed titanic, another one said her ex had an abnormally large Cock and the last one when I was talking to her about my Cock she says 'Well my ex was 9"' inferring that I must be small to her.

Mudballs logic is sound. Try to take his approach to the situation; although, easier said than done

Honzee, very curious what she will say if you do what mustang says

No way!!!! It mind fugged me. I've been married for almost 10 years and it still pops into my head every once in a while.

Honzee wrote:

Mustang2020 wrote:

Honzee wrote: If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

You really want to know how to get her to tell you her real sexual desires?

Whats that bro?

if you know her well, get her in a good and tipsy mood, tell her you want to watch porn with her, watch what ever she wants and slowly suggest to see some big dicks in small vagina type short clips, tell her it turns you on, make sure you make some good comments like: wow, look at that guy's Dick, it is so big and that girl loves it, kind of stuff, be creative, this is just an example, makes sure you are touching her private parts at the same time, she will get more wet when she sees what she likes, use your imagination and intellect to figure out what she wants/likes.

BE PREPARED to hear some stuff that you may not like, but then again you asked for it! A man of your Dick size should never be ashamed of his size. IF she likes Big Black Dicks, change the girl not your Dick coz you will never win, sorry if that is a bit harsh but I am not emotionally involved, you are buddy!

Good luck and tell us how it turns out if you decide to venture where few men have gone before!!!!!

Cantwaitforpma... Who cares, who is she with now? You man! Is she the tightest pussy you have had? Does she have the nicest or biggest tits? I was starting to get caught up in this I am not worthy crap because I wasn't a monster Cock and my wife may have had bigger!! We need to work on being better men! Work on things that are easy to change, like being a great husband, father , leader in your community ! Be a blessing to people not a burden, then when you are truely a real man.... Then consider this if it is still bothering you ..maybe then but not to worry about being her biggest, because obviously you have more going on than a Dick because she is with YOU! Good luck everyone, stop putting yourselves through the meat grinder!

Come on you guys, MM and Honzee. You have big dicks and you should not be afraid to ask. Both of you are large, MM you are huge, even if your GF's had bigger dicks before, you are still one of the largest they had had.

The question of penis size, breast size and vagina size always came up in all of my LONG term relationships. When I am in tune with my present lady, I am not afraid to ask nor tell her about penis size and vagina size since I feel both of us are very happy sexually together. As a matter of fact, my present lady said she had had a bigger Dick than mine and it hurt her too much that she only had sex with him twice! She loves my size even though it is a bit too big for her but we have a great relationship so it is not a problem for us. She also has smaller boobs to my liking but over all I am very happy with her hence I ignore it.

If you are confidant in your relationship with your GF/wife I think it should not bother you if she had a bigger Dick before you especially if both of you enjoy a good sex life....IMHO

I agree with MM, worst question ever. If not the worst question ever, definitely in the Top 5!

There is simply nothing positive you can get out of it, and there is really no reason to ask it. There is much more harm than good than can come out of it. Not only are women horrible judges of size, they may also perceive this as an opportunity to leverage against your ego. Careful where you tread.

It's a tough one for sure...

I want to know but don't at the same time. I think it would bother the crap out of me if I found out the guy before me was way larger and she obviously loved it. Would always plague your mind thinking "I am I large enough to meet her needs?"... but at the same time I want to know... uhg like cantwait said, ignorance is a bliss but damnit Im ignorant about being ignorant lol

Honzee wrote: If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

You really want to know how to get her to tell you her real sexual desires?

Mustang2020 wrote: Come on you guys, MM and Honzee. You have big dicks and you should not be afraid to ask. Both of you are large, MM you are huge, even if your GF's had bigger dicks before, you are still one of the largest they had had.

The question of penis size, breast size and vagina size always came up in all of my LONG term relationships. When I am in tune with my present lady, I am not afraid to ask nor tell her about penis size and vagina size since I feel both of us are very happy sexually together. As a matter of fact, my present lady said she had had a bigger Dick than mine and it hurt her too much that she only had sex with him twice! She loves my size even though it is a bit too big for her but we have a great relationship so it is not a problem for us. She also has smaller boobs to my liking but over all I am very happy with her hence I ignore it.

If you are confidant in your relationship with your GF/wife I think it should not bother you if she had a bigger Dick before you especially if both of you enjoy a good sex life....IMHO

Thanks bro I hear ya and so it shouldn't matter. I know I am not small nor have I ever really felt small with previous girls but this one who I want to marry kills my manhood with the secrecy. If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

I agree with it being a bad topic to bring up for most of us guys. I made the mistake of pressing this question with my wife and for a long time was told I was the largest. On another occasion when drinking I got her to reveal she had been with a guy who's dimensions were slightly larger than mine which I was able to cope with. Long before that she had admitted to sleeping with a super tall basketball player in college and I thought it odd he wasn't the guy who was bigger. Well another drinking occasion I basically told her I didn't believe her that he wasn't large and she revealed he was actually huge. I'm around 7 and if the slightly larger guy was 7.5-8 then when she said he was huge I took that as having to be 10-11" range. I also asked if she slept with him more than once and she did. So sex wasn't so horrible due to his monster to prevent her from going back for more. In the end it definitely has played into my thoughts about wanting to be bigger. Now I don't by any means think it will be common for a lover to have had been with someone in those 10+ dimensions but it certainly makes a guy with penis image issues even more self conscious. If this was just a girlfriend that had come and gone it probably would factor in less. This is the woman I plan on being with the rest of my life so she will always have that memory. Unfortunately for me it wasn't just long. She said it was proportionate. Mind you she had been drinking and I was really pressing her. Like an idiot. So I'll again caution those of you curious about this subject to think on it before asking for the truth. Ignorance can be bliss. I've told her if I can't be the longest I plan on being the fattest so I can at least have the top spot in one category. She thinks I'm silly and we have a great sex life but she is supportive because she knows it will have a positive effect on my self image. I think that's the main reason I care to pursue enlargement. Hopefully in the future they will develop viable lengthening procedures as well. I'm still trying to get to the financial ability to visit dr c but I've definitely decided I will when I can!