TOPIC: The Talk - previous cocks...

MM, Buddy, you have a bigger Dick than stupid David Duchnovy, I am certain....you should never ever be insecure about your size. Please do a check and see it for real, you are huge by any one's standard! I guarantee that ANY woman would love your Dick even most size queens!!!!

Dick size does matter in some cases, but it is not the wholly grail of a man! Most women, bar size queens, will be turned on by other attributes than just penis size. Sure, women talk about it a lot but it really is one piece of a pie that women think about when it comes to their man.

We should be men, be proud of our manhood, move forward and achieve our goals no matter what some women think or say in stupid tabloid mags. If some women put penis size first, like I said before, change the women not your Dick.....

I know I have a good size Dick now and all it did is cement my confidence in my self, it did help but it did not create who I am now!

Let's put things in prospective guys, come on!

Come on you guys, MM and Honzee. You have big dicks and you should not be afraid to ask. Both of you are large, MM you are huge, even if your GF's had bigger dicks before, you are still one of the largest they had had.

The question of penis size, breast size and vagina size always came up in all of my LONG term relationships. When I am in tune with my present lady, I am not afraid to ask nor tell her about penis size and vagina size since I feel both of us are very happy sexually together. As a matter of fact, my present lady said she had had a bigger Dick than mine and it hurt her too much that she only had sex with him twice! She loves my size even though it is a bit too big for her but we have a great relationship so it is not a problem for us. She also has smaller boobs to my liking but over all I am very happy with her hence I ignore it.

If you are confidant in your relationship with your GF/wife I think it should not bother you if she had a bigger Dick before you especially if both of you enjoy a good sex life....IMHO

I agree with MM, worst question ever. If not the worst question ever, definitely in the Top 5!

There is simply nothing positive you can get out of it, and there is really no reason to ask it. There is much more harm than good than can come out of it. Not only are women horrible judges of size, they may also perceive this as an opportunity to leverage against your ego. Careful where you tread.

Honzee, curious if you did what mustang said and watch some big Dick porn with your girl to see her reactions

It's a tough one for sure...

I want to know but don't at the same time. I think it would bother the crap out of me if I found out the guy before me was way larger and she obviously loved it. Would always plague your mind thinking "I am I large enough to meet her needs?"... but at the same time I want to know... uhg like cantwait said, ignorance is a bliss but damnit Im ignorant about being ignorant lol

We always hear about how it's us guys who are completely obsessed with penis size....Have you ever flipped through a women's magazine out of curiosity? Practically every issue has an article or something related to penis size. Back when I was a teenager and developing my obsession over penis size, that was the main source of info. And more often than not, the info would reinforce then idea that many women indeed enjoyed a bigger a penis.
Now, how often do you see a 'men's magazine' discuss various sizes of breasts and the benefits of each one? Zero
When I first started working and would hang out with co-workers after work, my female co-workers would get 'tipsy'...and what do you think they would talk about. Yes, how "huge" their boyfriend's penises were (they were never average)....I had a black co-worker who used to get sexually harassed by your supervisor (after work) whenever she would get 'tipsy'. It would always be the same thing..."Is it true what they say about black men?" She then would talk about how her friend's Nigerian boyfriend had a 10 Inch Cock...and how that "kept her in line", as she took a long drag on a cigarette. How do you think it would fly if I asked my Chinese subordinate "if it was true, that asian women were all tight"?
Oh, another double standard example... I remember being a new worker at a finance company...One of my colleagues (whom I didn't know well at all) talked about how she "loved" David Duchnovy (the guy from X files) . I asked why? And she said verbatim "besides the fact that he is gorgeous and has a huge Cock"? We were were alone in my office at the time, and she wasn't even trying to funny.
Anyway...Just thought I would rant a bit.

Honzee wrote: If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

You really want to know how to get her to tell you her real sexual desires?

Again why do guys put themselves through this? Who cares , Us, we are the ones that torture ourselves! No one ever points out that the women left the supposedly big Cock and is with us now, if his Dick was so good she would have over looked the bad and stuck it out, but obviously dicks are not everything to most women! If we keep swimming I our insecurities instead of working on positive things in our lives , we will always be misurable ! I do not discount the insecurities but don't drowned yourself in it! My brother is hung and he can't pay women to stay with him, not bad looking or anything just has nothing to give but a big Dick!

Mustang2020 wrote: Come on you guys, MM and Honzee. You have big dicks and you should not be afraid to ask. Both of you are large, MM you are huge, even if your GF's had bigger dicks before, you are still one of the largest they had had.

The question of penis size, breast size and vagina size always came up in all of my LONG term relationships. When I am in tune with my present lady, I am not afraid to ask nor tell her about penis size and vagina size since I feel both of us are very happy sexually together. As a matter of fact, my present lady said she had had a bigger Dick than mine and it hurt her too much that she only had sex with him twice! She loves my size even though it is a bit too big for her but we have a great relationship so it is not a problem for us. She also has smaller boobs to my liking but over all I am very happy with her hence I ignore it.

If you are confidant in your relationship with your GF/wife I think it should not bother you if she had a bigger Dick before you especially if both of you enjoy a good sex life....IMHO

Thanks bro I hear ya and so it shouldn't matter. I know I am not small nor have I ever really felt small with previous girls but this one who I want to marry kills my manhood with the secrecy. If you were with a girl and you knew the last peron she dated/ slept with was black then found her secretly getting off to BBC and BC porn when you weren't home what would you do/ think?

Just throwing this out there. If you were with a steady girl would you go beyond asking how many partners she's been with and ask what's the biggest Cock she's had?

I agree with it being a bad topic to bring up for most of us guys. I made the mistake of pressing this question with my wife and for a long time was told I was the largest. On another occasion when drinking I got her to reveal she had been with a guy who's dimensions were slightly larger than mine which I was able to cope with. Long before that she had admitted to sleeping with a super tall basketball player in college and I thought it odd he wasn't the guy who was bigger. Well another drinking occasion I basically told her I didn't believe her that he wasn't large and she revealed he was actually huge. I'm around 7 and if the slightly larger guy was 7.5-8 then when she said he was huge I took that as having to be 10-11" range. I also asked if she slept with him more than once and she did. So sex wasn't so horrible due to his monster to prevent her from going back for more. In the end it definitely has played into my thoughts about wanting to be bigger. Now I don't by any means think it will be common for a lover to have had been with someone in those 10+ dimensions but it certainly makes a guy with penis image issues even more self conscious. If this was just a girlfriend that had come and gone it probably would factor in less. This is the woman I plan on being with the rest of my life so she will always have that memory. Unfortunately for me it wasn't just long. She said it was proportionate. Mind you she had been drinking and I was really pressing her. Like an idiot. So I'll again caution those of you curious about this subject to think on it before asking for the truth. Ignorance can be bliss. I've told her if I can't be the longest I plan on being the fattest so I can at least have the top spot in one category. She thinks I'm silly and we have a great sex life but she is supportive because she knows it will have a positive effect on my self image. I think that's the main reason I care to pursue enlargement. Hopefully in the future they will develop viable lengthening procedures as well. I'm still trying to get to the financial ability to visit dr c but I've definitely decided I will when I can!

@mustang

Lol yeah well see... I'll feel it out and see when the opportunity arises. Bill keep u guys posted.

I feel already know the answer and doubt she'll be honest so may not go anywhere but who knows maybe a few drinks can change that.