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14 years 3 months ago #1273706512/e just had a thought - over the years, ive turned into MUCH more of a Grower than a shower. My Flaccid appearance is nothing compared to when i was like 16. Over the years, my Flaccid has become very small but with a lot of folds. not sure what to make of that other than i had more confidence in the locker room at 16 than now...lol
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14 years 3 months ago #1273186577- messageman
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14 years 3 months ago #1273195544- Skeptical_One
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The nail in the coffin was simple for me. I had lived with an undesirable stats all my adult life, sporting a 3.5" MSEG before PMMA. I found that I could justify the risks with virtually any procedure (including the implant, believe it or not), but I was fortunate to stumble upon PMMA, and found it to be the best risk & reward trade-off in the short term. Long term implications are not as well understood for use in the penis, but I can safely say that my personal long-term outlook without PMMA (or any PE method) would have been virtually little-to-no-sex. The nail in the coffin had been hammered in a long time ago.
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14 years 3 months ago #1273198637At your current size if you got in a room with 99 other men at random on average you would be longer than 95 of them and thicker than 75 of them according the Lifestyles condum survey which is one of the most respected size surveys in the market.Nocturnal wrote: my Erect stats are Length: 7in. Girth: 5in. ...I'm not unrealistic about gains, I think with my current dimensions, if I could gain at most 2 inches in length and girth I would be incredibly happy with that.
www.mraverage.com/stats.htm
If you were to enlarge your unit to 9x7 you would likely have a problem having pain-free sex with most women.
If your wife had an affair because she is a size queen then maybe creating a bigger unit may get her back if that is what you are after.
Chances are she stepped out because of other issues in your marriage. As hard as it is for us to believe, penis size is way down the importance list for most normal women. I am ashamed to say I have had several affairs with married women in my past and I had an average unit.
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14 years 3 months ago #1273188438- Skeptical_One
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It's good that you got a chance to write this all out. You'll come to see that if something is all "mental" (as you have admitted), then a lot of times the solutions are also "all mental." And I'm not trying to disrespect your conviction on the matter, but you are definitely not small. The situation with your wife will certainly make you find that hard to believe, but the reality is that she didn't seek out another man because of your lack of size...she sought out another man because she was an unfaithful slut. Reasons for infidelity are a lot more complex than "he was bigger than me." just my 2 cents there.Nocturnal wrote: Hello everyone,
I've been reading this forum for a little while now without registering, however I am finding that I am becoming more and more interested in PE, and I want to share my personal story and here feedback from other members' experiences. Right now, my Erect stats are Length: 7in. Girth: 5in. Some of you may be wondering why I would seek PE, however a few years ago I experienced every man's worst nightmare. I came home and found my (now ex) wife in bed with a man much more endowed than me. They say, unless you have micropenis that all PE endeavors are psychologically motivated and I am no different.
I have had difficulty forming relationships and maintaining erections (obviously the two most important things in the world) since then because I simply believe that my penis is too small and I have no confidence because of it.
In any event, I wanted to introduce myself and my reasons for wanting PE. I also wanted to ask several questions that have been on my mind about it, that I'm sure I've read somewhere else, but want to try to consolidate here. Do any of you do testosterone/hormone replacement therapy along with surgery and are there any complications with that? The procedures that I am most considering are PMMA injection and the Elist procedure. The nightmare experiences that have been highlighted are frightening, but if someone has a comparison of the pros and cons of both in an organized format that would be awesome. I'm not unrealistic about gains, I think with my current dimensions, if I could gain at most 2 inches in length and Girth I would be incredibly happy with that.
TL;DR - I'm a 26 year old, divorced male, cuckolded by a bigger man, possibly suffering from low t (balding, fatigue, difficulty with erections, muscle loss) looking for the holy grail (best/safest) PE procedure to have, and wondering if there are any complications from using testosterone replacement therapies during/after the procedure.
You're young and have time to figure this all out. If you wish to pursue PE, be sure to do all the research as MM has pointed out. Two inches in length or Girth are a bit on the unrealistic size, most are lucky to gain an Inch in Erect length (by any method) and Girth varies (2 inches usually on the upper limits). And not only that, but you must be careful trying not to over-Girth your Dick because it may cause a disproportionate-look which will only cause you more grief, not less (unless you are like me and aesthetics are not a major concern).
Furthermore, PE is full of risks, and many of the consequences of those risks can be a loss of size, a dysfunctional Dick, and lower self-esteem to name a few.
Personally, I think you should devote half (if not the majority) of your time to the mental-aspects of things to really be sure PE is the direction you want to go. This stuff isn't like getting a tattoo. It's a much bigger decision.
Good luck!
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14 years 3 months ago #1273184353I've been reading this forum for a little while now without registering, however I am finding that I am becoming more and more interested in PE, and I want to share my personal story and here feedback from other members' experiences. Right now, my Erect stats are Length: 7in. Girth: 5in. Some of you may be wondering why I would seek PE, however a few years ago I experienced every man's worst nightmare. I came home and found my (now ex) wife in bed with a man much more endowed than me. They say, unless you have micropenis that all PE endeavors are psychologically motivated and I am no different.
I have had difficulty forming relationships and maintaining erections (obviously the two most important things in the world) since then because I simply believe that my penis is too small and I have no confidence because of it.
In any event, I wanted to introduce myself and my reasons for wanting PE. I also wanted to ask several questions that have been on my mind about it, that I'm sure I've read somewhere else, but want to try to consolidate here. Do any of you do testosterone/hormone replacement therapy along with surgery and are there any complications with that? The procedures that I am most considering are PMMA injection and the Elist procedure. The nightmare experiences that have been highlighted are frightening, but if someone has a comparison of the pros and cons of both in an organized format that would be awesome. I'm not unrealistic about gains, I think with my current dimensions, if I could gain at most 2 inches in length and Girth I would be incredibly happy with that.
TL;DR - I'm a 26 year old, divorced male, cuckolded by a bigger man, possibly suffering from low t (balding, fatigue, difficulty with erections, muscle loss) looking for the holy grail (best/safest) PE procedure to have, and wondering if there are any complications from using testosterone replacement therapies during/after the procedure.
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14 years 3 months ago #1273413742I don't have a lot of sex either way. I have some difficulty maintaining erections. In fact I had a very difficult time taking this photo, as my Erection would go away when I would stand up to take the picture with the tape measure, so instead I just did this sitting down. I'm overweight (5'7, 210) but hoping to lose some weight, and hoping that this is the source of my erectile difficulties. I also have very low energy as well which is why I'm considering TRT.
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You are pretty big. Your dilemma may rest entirely on your weight, energy, and Erection issues. I wouldn't even dwell on PE until you get the aforementioned issues addressed first. And even then, I'm not sure you'd want to mess with a unit that is aesthetically proportioned and well endowed.Nocturnal wrote: Here's a before pic: Not quite ready to take the PMMA plunge yet, but here is a before pic for you guys as I go through the decision making process. Stats are 7 in length (Tape measured Erect) and seems to vacillate between 5 and 6 inches in Girth depending on my excitement level.
I don't have a lot of sex either way. I have some difficulty maintaining erections. In fact I had a very difficult time taking this photo, as my Erection would go away when I would stand up to take the picture with the tape measure, so instead I just did this sitting down. I'm overweight (5'7, 210) but hoping to lose some weight, and hoping that this is the source of my erectile difficulties. I also have very low energy as well which is why I'm considering TRT.
If your woman did indeed cheat on you because of size (which I highly doubt), then she had a huge, loose vagina if she had reservations over your dimensions.
I believe mentally, you are making size out to be the issue, when it isn't the culprit at all. I don't even know you personally, but I'm absolutely positive of this.
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