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New and Looking for Advice
5 years 4 months ago #1308702612Been lurking for almost a year and have mustered the courage to make a post. This is mostly due to the supportive nature of the community.
Here’s my story. Been married for 15 years and enjoyed our sex life. My wife is on the horny side and until last March, we would have sex about 5 times per week. When the pandemic hit, we decided to get some new toys seeing as we now had more time together. Prior, we had always used fairly tame stuff. She had a smallish dildo for when she wanted anal, and a vibrator. When were made Or first order, I suggested something girthier, around 6.5. She LOVED it and we ended up having sex about twice a day (with and without use of dildo). Curious, I ordered something bigger. I’ve never seen her come so hard. Went up to a 7.75 Girth and she screams in and shakes. I get the strongest reaction with 8x8 insertion. She ordered a sleeve for me to wear sometimes, and she generally prefers it over just a dildo because she feels closer to me. The sleeve makes me 8.5x7.5 and I can tell she loves it, even though she’s shy to ask.
I could tell she felt bad for enjoying and she would regularly go out of her way to say she likes the size, but prefers me. To boot, she goes and gets a breast fat transfer and goes from an A to a C cup and loves it when I play with her breasts (I really enjoy them). I’ve been blown away by her generosity. With time on my hands I got to thinking I wanted to do something about my penis size if possible. I had looked up stuff on penis enhancement maybe 20 years ago and it all seemed scary and dangerous. Then I found this forum.
I’m about 7x5.2n Erect, which isn’t bad. Flaccid I’m about 5x4, but occasionally smaller (4x4?) when cold.I started stretching about 4 months ago, but can’t tell if I’m making progress (my Erection length varies). I got her drunk one night and she says her dream is an 8x8. This makes sense given what she enjoys dildo wise. I want to get there, but don’t know if I should go the Girth route sooner and then try for length, or length first then Girth. Am I crazy to pursue these dimensions? She’s now very much behind me getting PE and just smiles when I can her a cubist. Advice? I’m new and just figuring this all out. How long will it take to get to 8” length? Anyone with 8” Girth? If so, is it even possible to hide it, or will people noticing inevitable? I’m going to post pictures later to have something to reference in my journey.
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5 years 4 months ago #1308702613- Dickwhitman79
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ThatThing wrote: Hello everyone,
Been lurking for almost a year and have mustered the courage to make a post. This is mostly due to the supportive nature of the community.
Here’s my story. Been married for 15 years and enjoyed our sex life. My wife is on the horny side and until last March, we would have sex about 5 times per week. When the pandemic hit, we decided to get some new toys seeing as we now had more time together. Prior, we had always used fairly tame stuff. She had a smallish dildo for when she wanted anal, and a vibrator. When were made Or first order, I suggested something girthier, around 6.5. She LOVED it and we ended up having sex about twice a day (with and without use of dildo). Curious, I ordered something bigger. I’ve never seen her come so hard. Went up to a 7.75 Girth and she screams in and shakes. I get the strongest reaction with 8x8 insertion. She ordered a sleeve for me to wear sometimes, and she generally prefers it over just a dildo because she feels closer to me. The sleeve makes me 7.5x8.5 and I can tell she loves it, even though she’s shy to ask.
I could tell she felt bad for enjoying and she would regularly go out of her way to say she likes the size, but prefers me. To boot, she goes and gets a breast fat transfer and goes from an A to a C cup and loves it when I play with her breasts (I really enjoy them). I’ve been blown away by her generosity. With time on my hands I got to thinking I wanted to do something about my penis size if possible. I had looked up stuff on penis enhancement maybe 20 years ago and it all seemed scary and dangerous. Then I found this forum.
I’m about 7x5.2n Erect, which isn’t bad. Flaccid I’m about 5x4, but occasionally smaller (4x4?) when cold.I started stretching about 4 months ago, but can’t tell if I’m making progress (me Erection length varies). I get her drunk one night and she says her dream is an 8x8. This makes sense given what she enjoys dildo wise. I want to get there, but don’t know if I should go the Girth route sooner and then try for length, or length first then Girth. Am I crazy to pursue these dimensions? She’s now very much behind me getting PE and just smiles when I can her a cubist. Advice? I’m new and just figuring this all out. How long will it take to get to 8” length? Anyone with 8” Girth? If so, is it even possible to hide it, or will people noticing inevitable? I’m going to post pictures later to have something to reference in my journey.
Thanks
If function is your goal then a 3” Girth gain is unrealistic. You’re already “big”. I think you could realistically gain an Inch in Girth and you’d be huge compared to 99% of guys .
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5 years 4 months ago #1308702618As for length, it seems the only real methods are manual PE. I had good luck with an all day stretcher (I used the Penimaster pro). You can also try Hanging or just jelquing. Check out thundersplace and start with their newbie routine. You can progress from there. You should be able to get. 5 to 1 Inch relatively quickly and easily through newbie gains. Anything more than that is going to take dedication and time.
Keep us updated on what you try please!
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5 years 4 months ago #1308702622Regarding a traction device. I’ve been using the Phallosan Forte. It’s okay, but the base is uncomfortable. Is the Penismaster Pro more comfortable? Other advantages?
Lastly, any tips on taking pics to post here? All of them look awful. I’m obviously doing something wrong.
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5 years 4 months ago #1308702634ThatThing wrote: I’ve raised the same concerns about aesthetics to my wife. Her response has been that she cares more about the feel. Now, she’s also said that she would rather enjoy what I have than have some horrible complications. Was the issue with Silicone drops that they reacted with other fillers, or are they just inherently dangerous? Can you link to the thread you have in mind? I have a monthly sub, but last I checked can’t view pics from 2.0.
Regarding a traction device. I’ve been using the Phallosan Forte. It’s okay, but the base is uncomfortable. Is the Penismaster Pro more comfortable? Other advantages?
Lastly, any tips on taking pics to post here? All of them look awful. I’m obviously doing something wrong.
Here are the two threads I was talking about:
phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/big...ma-procedure-5588285
phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/mir...t-5391236?trail=1170
As for the Penismaster, I just prefer the way it attached and the confort it provides. Add in a glans cap and I can wear it indefinitely. I do wish it would have a stronger traction though as it no longer does anything for me since I've started hanging.
I've never posted pics here so I can't give you any tips there! Sorry!
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5 years 4 months ago #1308702640If sex is enjoyable at 8", which is far beyond any man's natural girth, I would recommend accepting that you should use a sleeve to achieve that girth. If it's about the sensation of stretching for your wife, there's no reason to risk the health of your penis or extreme irregularity to achieve a girth far beyond anything that occurs naturally. You could also use filler to get you part-way there and use a sleeve for the rest.
This is just my two cents, but since you asked the forum's opinion I thought I'd let you know what I think.
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