TOPIC: New, Nervous, Optimistic, but skeptical

Well, Here it goes. My first post. I have scrolled through the site a couple of times in the past few months. Then finally today really sat down. Have been looking this over for the past 4 hours. I know a little crazy. For me the insecurities started when my engagement failed a few years ago. She used to talk about, in the beginning of our relationship about how big her exes were. which was a bit intimidating. She never really said anything bad about me, but I always felt there was something there that she didnt like. I never let it affect anything, we always had sex, she always got off, I never cut corners either. There was a point where I got an illness, ended up in the hospital for a bit, had surgery, and came home. this was right before our wedding. in that Time period she apparently found some other men, with larger packages, that she preferred more and when I found out I called everything off. we worked on things, which got put on hold when my grandfather died. I came back from to find here in our bed with another man with what I can tell you was a pringles can between his legs. Fast forward to the end of this relationship, and the beginning of my new one and things are great. The girl thinks I'm god in bed and is extremely kinky. she brings other women in all the time, and even finds women for me when shes not around. All around its a good life. Recently, after my fathers death in May last year, Ive gone on a health kick and lost 65lbs. The gf likes it, our play mates like it. but for some reason when we talk about sex with a new playmate, and they see my pics or see my penis they want to know its Girth, and talk about how size is important and Girth is really important. I've also taken up a small affair with a co-worker, the gf thinks its fantastic. But the co worker keeps bringing up Girth and now I'm worried again. I keep coming back to that stupid fucking pringles can of a man. Its the first time i wont let some one see it in person. Another girl today said the same that Girth is important. The ones i've been with all say that I'm a great size, but still I just dont believe them. I spend just about every hour that I'm not working or with my gf, researching enlargement procedures.

As far as procedures I'm intrigued but terrified of the complications and ruining my penis. I just want Girth. Girth seems to really have the most complications. I know some members seem to have gains but some of the things I get hung up on are the minor complications. the Nodules, or irregularities. I'm just unsure where to go. With my questions, or even the questions to ask anymore. I know complications are a part of everything. Pumps and contraptions are temporary. exercises take time that I dont have. (I know, make time) but all the research i've read has been shaky and without any real basis in fact. I guess the best I can say is who can help guide me to narrow down a procedure? so far PMMA is leading as a lot of you have had it. The grafts show up in a lot of my searches as well. Not sure of what else is out there that is permanent for enlarging Girth. I saw the Elist implant, but upon research on this site, I have decided against it.

should I post pics, does that help?

Flaccid, 5.5"(varies by temp or how relaxed bigger or smaller)
Girth: 5"
Erect: 7"
Girth: 6.1"

I'm sorry if this makes no sense. I started and then got lost in my rant, then lost focus and tried to bring it all back. Just nervous to even say any of this, or write it.

as for posting pics it would definitively be useful if your looking for advice specifically from some of the senior member on the site.

BTW welcome to the board.

So you are 7x6,1 and think its small...?

wow dude 6 Inch Girth and you're searching for larger Girth... wtf. You are in the 98-99 percentile and you want to risk plastic in your Dick to make it bigger. Go see a psychiatrist about body dysmorphia before you go forward with anything. Just ridiculous to even consider man,

6.1 Erect Girth, if this is true then you should tell any girl that complains about it to get their vagina tightened.

A Reminder to the Public: If you have anything in the 7x6 ballpark (or bigger), you're girlfriend or significant other is lying (with the exception of a minority of instances), more times to keep your ego in check, out of fear that a large Phallus can get to your head. OR she's plain cruel, since she knows her stories about her previous ex'es aren't nearly as big as a 7x6. Unless she has a habit of dating pornstars, swingers, professional athletes, etc, the odds that she has frequently been smashed by a unit of that size or larger is quite slim.

7x6 is certifiably large, arguably "huge" when taking volume into consideration. If your reasons for wanting more is based on the insecurity involving you size, I'd strongly recommend reassessing the need to get anything done. Your Flaccid alone is nearly the size of the average Erect man. 6" Erect Girth (assuming you measured correctly) is thicker than most women have the privilege of playing with.

Reklaw wrote: 6.1 Erect Girth, if this is true then you should tell any girl that complains about it to get their vagina tightened.

Agreed. We have allowed women to critique our penises far too long. It's time to man-the-fuck-up and play them at their own game. I'm not condoning shaming a woman for a cavernous vagina, but she must have her shortcomings pointed out if she's willing to do the same. Or alternatively, not allowing a woman who's willingly cruel or insensitive to be in your life.

Skeptical One wrote: A Reminder to the Public: If you have anything in the 7x6 ballpark (or bigger), you're girlfriend or significant other is lying (with the exception of a minority of instances), more times to keep your ego in check, out of fear that a large Phallus can get to your head. OR she's plain cruel, since she knows her stories about her previous ex'es aren't nearly as big as a 7x6. Unless she has a habit of dating pornstars, swingers, professional athletes, etc, the odds that she has frequently been smashed by a unit of that size or larger is quite slim.

7x6 is certifiably large, arguably "huge" when taking volume into consideration. If your reasons for wanting more is based on the insecurity involving you size, I'd strongly recommend reassessing the need to get anything done. Your Flaccid alone is nearly the size of the average Erect man. 6" Erect Girth (assuming you measured correctly) is thicker than most women have the privilege of playing with.

Completely agree, nice post!
I dont get why professional athletes have more chances to have big dicks though. Why?

Quite interesting that you are nearly as girthy as Billy Glide (one of the girthiest pornstars) and have more lenght,and have an active sexual life,and with all of your sexual encounters you still haven't realized that you are huge. Actually,more like plain bullshit other than "interesting".
Why would the moderators even let him post that? This is toxic for people who have dysmorphophobia,and could led them to have complexes even if they have a normal penis,or maybe make a decision potentially harmful like having a procedure when they are not under average,which is 5 or 4.80 or whatever.
Don't know what is your aim,but you shouldn't be doing that.

For anybody reading,remember that contrary to the belief that a small penis is like 3 inches and a big one is 9,the reality is that an enormous differenze occours from lets say 5 or 6 in Girth,and that brings you from your average Joe to a one in a hundred Girth,AKA pornstar.
People on the web who feel that at six are not big are either crazy,trolling,or wanna make Human race extinguish causing insecurities in males.
The last was a joke ahah, but beware

smalljay wrote: I too thought it was toxic as fuck. I don't know that this guy has ever had a real hardship in his life with regards to this. He has no idea what hell can be - he's kinda like a spoild brat of dicks lol. If you can't get it done with 7x6 you need to look at other aspects of your game (such as dating women who wont fuck pringles cans while you're at your family's funeral). It would have been interesting to see how his small psyche would have been affected had he gone ahead with the Elist implant and come out with average length - I bet no way would he have been able to live with that. Some dudes are just spoiled in this regard, life's not fair. He's all agitated because ONE girl one time he felt a little hesitant not immediately pulling his Dick out for - must be so torturous for him to one time ever be a little hesitant about a threesome.

markorea7 wrote: For anybody reading,remember that contrary to the belief that a small penis is like 3 inches and a big one is 9,the reality is that an enormous differenze occours from lets say 5 or 6 in Girth,and that brings you from your average Joe to a one in a hundred Girth,AKA pornstar. People on the web who feel that at six are not big are either crazy,trolling,or wanna make Human race extinguish causing insecurities in males. The last was a joke ahah, but beware

I'm not trying to toxic in any way. I'm sincerely sorry to offend anyone on here as I have read some of the posts and truly that was the only reason I even posted here. My psychiatrist told me try and reach out to people who have dealt with body dysmorphic issues, and get their opinions and advice. Since then, I have joined a weight loss group and begun working out and I feel it helps my confidence. I may actually go to the beach this year for the first time in over a decade. This is an area I've always had an issues with but I've always tried to convey confidence so I didnt appear weak. I always envisioned and been told a man, is strong and confident in all areas of his life. I've been going to a psychiatrist since I was 12 years old after an incident that I dont particularly care to get into, but it began my hatred of myself. That girl was the first girlfiend I felt truly accepted me. I had a few before, all spoke of their others and their sizes some were bigger, some smaller. I have always tried to find out where I sit. Not out of hubris but because I've always been terrified I didnt add up. Did I show that..HELL NO! I've been able portray false confidence, well enough to skate by. Some saw through it, others did not.

Truly I did not mean to upset this group at all. If you would like me to abstain from posting or have me leave the site I will. I look at all of you and what you've been through like a safe haven to discuss my insecurities no matter how I compared to all of you. I dont EVER wish to down play any one and what they have been through. I came here in an attempt to gain advice, reassurance, peace with myself and because I felt that you all could guide me in the right mental and physical direction. Again please, especially you smalljay, I did not mean in any way to offend or upset. I've attached 3 pictures. 2 taken in my bathroom as its the best mirror I have available. and one laying down because I'm still ashamed of my stomach. AGAIN TRULY SORRY...THIS WAS NOT MEANT AS MALICIOUS...

You are of good size and shape, meaning it is very nice esthetically. I too,until I spent time on this board, thought I was smaller than average. I found out that I was above average and have finally accepted that.
I also realized there will always be bigger and unfortunately there will be smaller than me.

It took me till the ripe old age of 47 to figure that one out. I guess im a slow learner....

You have a great Dick - go to the gym, get your body in the shape you want it - unlike PE there is no luck or downside to going to the gym. If you put in the time you will see results. I would put your energy there if you want to re-invent yourself and leave your Dick alone - not only is there nothing wrong with it, there is plenty right with it. Give yourself and new body, not a new Dick, and you will feel like you have both - and hi.

@hyperblu

Please don't take what I said as a sort of criticism or bashing. I'm more-or-less trying to open your eyes to the reality that you are in-fact large, and that you need not be pursuing any sort of medical intervention. If you (and your therapist) believe it is healthy to express how you feel, please do so. We have a "Love, Lust, and & Vanity," sub-forum designated for conversations ranging from a variety of topics, including size insecurities. There you can share how you feel and discuss it with like-minded people. PhalloBoards doesn't have to be "toxic," and if used correctly, can benefit you. There is much wisdom and community here, try those avenues first.

@Forum Readers

I do not believe for a moment that this forum is inherently toxic. In what may be a silly analogy: the forum is like medicine. If used as prescribed, can improve or even cure ailments. However, if over-dosed, or used improperly (e.g. drug interactions), can prove damaging or even fatal. The forum is much the same way. If you come onto these forums to learn, discuss, and make a sound, healthy decision on whether or not to have penis enlargement, you'll find a lot of benefit. If you find yourself logging in daily (unless your a Moderator or Forum Vet), obsessing over a few "amazing gains post-op patients," and rush into making a decision only to regret it weeks/months later...well you get the point. Here is a thread discussing this very topic: phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/uni...rum-6609717?trail=15

So you say you are six inches Girth Erect,which is,according to statistics,the 99 percentile,and the girls you had in your life had found as many bigger guys than you as smaller ones? Which means that half of the guys your girlfriens fucked were in the 99 percentile. All your previous girlfriends. Half of the people they fucked. Either this is a statistical miracle,either you are fucking with the forum,either statistic are completely skewed. But not just a little,or maybe somehow; COMPLETELY skewed. Am i the only one to see that as an important thing?