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title: "Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth) - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards"
description: "Hey. Im 26 from lithuania, europe. EL 13cm 5in EG 11-11.5cm 4.3-4.5 in based on eq I have the oportunity (i think so based on our chats and we agreed to meet..."
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#  TOPIC: Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth)

##  Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth)

   5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703721](#1308703721)

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 Hey. Im 26 from lithuania, europe.

EL 13cm 5in
EG 11-11.5cm 4.3-4.5 in based on eq

I have the oportunity (i think so based on our chats and we agreed to meet for this) to have sex on friday with 26 year old girl who has 2 kids.

Do you recomend me to wait and first increase my EG or just try anyway? I want to but she has 2 kids (4 and 6 years) her vagina will be looser than someone who has 1 or no kids maybe she and or me wont feel a thing as im already below average. We talked about being sex friends but i think the posibility of that would greatly increase if i first do HA or elanse (i dont know why but im too afraid of PMMA complications and im scared of permanent things (tatoos, kids, etc) and im hoping in the future something even better than PMMA, HA or elanse will come and if if have PMMA i think i wont be able to take advantage of those new penis enhancements.

I could just have sex with her and if she doesnt like it, increase my Girth and just send her a Dick pic but i dont want people knowing that i did something to my penis so i dont know what lie i could tell her (my testosterone was low and i started therapy and it was second puberty or i had prostatitis/ed issues?) i think most women wont be dedectives but will just enjoy a bigger size.

Also maybe someone uses tadalafil/Cialis, dapoxetine/priligy or something similar? Because I have no morning Erection and i can have sex without these drugs but Erection disapers quickly and i dont last long and cant have hard and fast sex for long and thinking about buying more of these pills but i cant figure out ideal dosages. I had testosterone test done and everything seems fine, just high FAI, I had prostatitis about 10 years ago and im thinking maybe its now chronic and thats why i always had Erection problems and cant last so i will go to Urologist soon. Do you recomend that i fix these isues before doing HA or elanse? or just do HA or elanse but use ED drugs so i can better mold the filler? Is it bad that I don't have morning Erection for these fillers?

Sorry if this sound silly but im interested in your opininions and about sex with women who has given birth or multiple births.

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##  Re: Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth)

   5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703726](#1308703726)

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 If you do not have a morning Erection a Testosterone check would help, but as you said you had it checked already, maybe you need to recheck the results by yourself as doctors tend to say everything is alright if you are in a specific range (300-1000 ng/dl) however this range is ridiculous and a men your age should have higher 700s.

Regarding your question: You are definitely overthinking the situation and creating a non-existing issue in your mind. Your Dick will be perfectly fine regardless the average'ness of it. Try to get the thought off your mind and just enjoy yourself, I know it's hard but if you create those images in your head, it will mess with you.

Once a girl lets you in her pants, she's usually already agreeing to you as a mating partner..., so, seriously get rid of negative energy.

Also, just as an idea, start with her giving you a blowjob and if she's enjoying it (which she will if she's not a rigid but then it's over anyway) you know she wants to feel it in her vagina, too.

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##  Re: Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth)

   5 years 1 month ago [\#1308703728](#1308703728)

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##  Re: Hold off sex until procedure? (women who has given birth)

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