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#  TOPIC: Explaining Growth

##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699268](#1308699268)

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 The topics of alibis and explaining growths come by every once and a while so this will be useful to many I'm sure.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699280](#1308699280)

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 Growth through Jelqing/non-injection PE is the best story imo. It not only explains current growth, but it also allows you to explain any future growth that you might get if you want to pursue getting further injections. Telling a one-off story about an injury will only explain one instance of growth which I think is too limiting.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699283](#1308699283)

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 Ok. Here's my story.

So, to begin with, I was a decent sized by all accounts. 7.75 BPEL, and 6 or just below in EG, (bigger at base) and my wife (been married over 20 years) had commented a few times that it was big, etc, etc. But as we all have done, I went down the rabbit hold of wanting a bigger Cock. I've been on here, PE Gym, and Thunders Place for quite a while. Half assed attempts at manual PE etc. But no real results to speak of.

I've been flirting with getting PMMA or another filler for a few years. But a few months ago decided to pull the trigger on Ellanse.

Back up about 12 months, I went to my Dr for a lump of veins in my scrotum, turns out it was a varicocele, basically harmless, and more or less went away on it's own. I got thinking about it, and decided to use it for cover for my procedure(s). A couple months ago (June I think) I decided to get the P-shot at a local Doc. Told the wife it was some injections to clear out the veins that were "kinked" up. She bought it. Went and had it done. Just told her it was swelling, which it kinda was. I thought it was going to work and gain *some* size, but after 6 weeks, it all went away.

Sooo.. I had a business trip to San Diego planned recently. I decided to add 3 days on the front end, and go do Dr C for the Ellanse. Told my wife that I needed one last round of shots to clear up this issue, and since we couldn't have sex for a week after, it would make sense to hit the Dr's office on the way to the airport, and heal on my trip. As soon as I landed in San Diego, my appt with Dr C was like 2 hours later. So I got that done, so I could send a couple of pictures to the wife of how swollen it was, etc, etc.

Stayed for a couple of days, then went to San Diego, did the meetings I had, but mostly stayed in the hotel, and by the pool. Healing, massaging etc.

Got home exactly a week after the Ellanse injections. She noticed in the shower, (bruising was all gone, but obviously still swollen) I told her "yeah, he said it could stay swollen for a couple of months, but basically this shot clears out the vein blockages, and increases blood flow, so it will be bigger because there is better flow" she seemed to buy it. And the longer is going on, the more she is losing her reference point as to what I was before.

She did make a couple of comments, that she is being "stretched to max capacity" and I will say, at least from my side.. sex is WAY better. Much more friction, and sensation of filling her up.

Anyway, that's my cover story. Pretty ballsy I will admit. Especially for being married as long as I have. I have a couple of small issues that I think I may need a touch up for. Not sure how I'm going to explain that one. But one step at a time.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699302](#1308699302)

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 Well done with covering your tracks there. I’ve done similar to cover up my tracks with my girlfriend when I had plastic surgery done.

Does it seem like she enjoys the sex more? Is she cumming more frequently/harder? Also, what type of issues are you going in for? I’m pretty set on getting Ellanse done in the near future.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699330](#1308699330)

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 you can say that you took hormone treatment because you had low testosterone levels and your body developed like you were teenagger

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 11 months ago [\#1308699344](#1308699344)

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 Well, the rest of my body certainly hasn't developed like that, lol.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 10 months ago [\#1308699694](#1308699694)

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 Heres my cover story:
We've been together for 12 years, married for 9. We have 2 kids, 3 and 5.
I had major back surgery when I was in high school. I've had a lot of small issues from my surgery. I've told my wife front the beginning of our relationship that I've lost some size over time due to lack of blood flow due to complications from my surgery. This year I went foe rounds 1 and 2 of PMMA and told her tr that I was seeing a Dr to correct some nerve issues in my groin area and possible byproduct is increased blood flow and, in turn, return to my previous size. Shes accepted it and has enjoyed the gains! She comments about how big it is and how she has missed out on the time with this size.

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   5 years 8 months ago [\#1308700645](#1308700645)

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##  Re: Explaining Growth

   3 years 7 months ago [\#1308710236](#1308710236)

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 Funny thats the exact story that I am using... would you have been able to drive yourself back to San diego the same day after the surgery?

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