--- title: "Because of the nature of modern day relationships you need to have decent equipment otherwise you're getting kicked to the curb - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "People sleep with each other first and then decide if they want to date. Average is more than enough as long as you're good at... - Page 2" url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/love-lust-vanity/7906209-because-of-the-nature-of-modern-day-relationships-you-need-to-have-decent-equipment-otherwise-youre-getting-kicked-to-the-curb.html?start=15" date: "2026-08-06T16:39:23+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Because of the nature of modern day relationships you need to have decent equipment otherwise you're getting kicked to the curb ## Because of the nature of modern day relationships you need to have decent equipment otherwise you're getting kicked to the curb 10 years 6 months ago [\#1290697903](#1290697903) - **[microcock](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html "View microcock's Profile")** - [![microcock's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html "View microcock's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 58 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4365384) People sleep with each other first and then decide if they want to date. Average is more than enough as long as you're good at oral and spend a lot of time on foreplay. However, if you have a small penis it's extremely difficult to compensate. Nothing can make up for it. I go to the gym everyday for 2-3 hours a day and have a great physique but none of this means shit unless you have an average penis or above. I've slept with over 25 girls and none of them ever wanted to hang out again unless I persisted. It's hard for me to deal with this as a 21 year old. All guys are talking about is how many girls they sleep with and who they are dating. They always ask me why I don't have any girls on my radar. The reason for this is because of my small penis. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5Lzc5MDYyMDktYmVjYXVzZS1vZi10aGUtbmF0dXJlLW9mLW1vZGVybi1kYXktcmVsYXRpb25zaGlwcy15b3UtbmVlZC10by1oYXZlLWRlY2VudC1lcXVpcG1lbnQtb3RoZXJ3aXNlLXlvdXJlLWdldHRpbmcta2lja2VkLXRvLXRoZS1jdXJiLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MSZzdGFydD0xNQ==) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Because of the nature of modern day relationships you need to have decent equipment otherwise you're getting kicked to the curb 10 years 6 months ago [\#1290727866](#1290727866) - **[microcock](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html "View microcock's Profile")** - [![microcock's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html "View microcock's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4365384-microcock.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 58 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4365384) > Skeptical One wrote: > Xthin wrote: Microcock im totally sympathize with you im 5.75 x 4.75-4.8 and 3.5 x 3.5 Flaccid and i hate myself i wish there was a safest method with 90% chances of success than PMMA or elist implant damnn life is not fair... > > > Perfectly normal penis. > > Some of these newer, younger guys who are interested in penis enlargement because they are depressed over their normal penises remind me of a 16 year old bitching at their parents because they got a new, reasonable quality sedan as opposed to a BMW. We all want the beamer, but we should ultimately be happy we have a functioning clean car. > > Men from all over come to this site to search for possible penis enlargement methods, and many have their reasons. I'm not in their shoes so I cannot normally judge... some common reasons include > Wanting to spice up love life with significant other.To offset enlarged vaginas from pregnancy.Vanity and/or fetish for a larger size.Genuinely under-average and notably on the smaller side. Those who are medically micro as well.There are all perfectly valid reasons I have no place to question...but to "hate life" for being born with a normal penis is lame at best. Pardon the tough love but some of you all need to grow up. > > I should also point out that undergoing these procedures without a healthy sound state of mind is highly discouraged! Penis enlargement may not necessarily alleviate mental burdens, it wont necessarily make you more confident, and if shit gets bad (i.e. complications), your ability to cope with them could be disastrous. Get healthy, find a hobby, and come back to the forums when your pursuit for penis enlargement is more along the lines of what I bulleted above. And even then you may come to realize how sufficient you really are in bed, and how the risks may not be worth it after all. I used to be low end of average but now I am genuinely small. Also I can't get Erect. I agree with what you're saying to an extent but I feel like my complaints are justified. 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As long as there are bars and night clubs or strip joints that serve alcoholic beverages, every guy yes, every guy including YOU, has a chance to spit some game and take a broad home. I guarantee you if I was not married I would have a different chick every weekend. I would most definitely be getting laid more than I am now. Why, because I can walk up to any woman even ones out of my league and hold an intelligent conversation, with confidence. Im no Jean Claude Van damme but Im not Danny Devito either, I'm sure that I can spit game just as good as my younger years. Hell I'd have 500 notches if the internet was flowin back in my hey day..... all we had was cocaine and alcoholic drinks at the Red Onion lol.... I may not be as good as I once was, but I am as good once as I ever was.... 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Check out the posts where women discuss buying the perfect dildo size and then look at the one where they pick the perfect "size" based on 33 3 dimensional blue cylinders shaped into fake penises. The results of both of those studies will suprise you. By the way the 3d blue study was here in the states by a group of women. A study by women on womens preferences, done at a college I believe in New Mexico. use the search tab at the top. 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