TOPIC: What size counts as adequate, in your opinion.

A well trimmed finger !

It is something to ponder .... We are so worried about being huge, but I can make my wife go insane with just my finger. And she wasn't the only one that my little finger could make go crazy!

buttercups wrote: I am only around 5.75 - 6.1" EG.

Only? Rest assured, that is big

There is such a thing as too big gentlemen and my partner found out the hard way this week.
It was the first time I had been with this girl and we had sex.
I used generous amounts of lubrication and It seemed to be going well...She had a look on her face of shock,, so I asked her if it was ok...She I said "absolutely".
She then sat on my penis and started to ride me...That's when she let out a scream and got off....She said that it "hurt", so we stopped having sex for the evening. She later told me she really enjoyed it but when she sat on me, it went "too deep"
Fast forward two days...I emailed her and asked how things were going...She emails back and says she is in the hospital. Apparently her vagina had been "burning" for the last two days and when she did a self examination, she found " a wound". Later at the hospital she learned there had been a "tear" and it needed stitching . The doctor who examined her apparently sees this quite often. Usually this happens because there is not enough lubrication or the girl is not "ready". Honestly though, I thought that we definitely did enough foreplay and she was certainly wet. On top of that, we we had a sea of lubrication.
This girl is young and hot ...and has very little interest in seeing me again....
The culprit? I believe it was my 7.5 Inch base Girth.
Moral of the story...Bigger isn't always better.

Yeah we should start a thread to swap tips and tricks sometime.

anon1 wrote: What Girth size do you believe is minimum for pleasuring the average woman?
(Without the help of your tongue).


This forum is a good place to ask this i think, since there are some people on here who have had the experience of having had different sized penises at varying times in their lives!

Most people have only had one size to experiment with.

I think this question overlooks a crucial factor...the woman's vagina. Since we do not have solid figures on the "tightness" of vaginas (would be hard to ascertain), I'm not sure there is a real minimal, it really all depends on the woman who's receiving the Girth. I've had sex with a woman who was tight enough that even below-average girths would be sufficient. And then again I've had sex with a woman who maybe after a few children would need a minimum of 5.25 or 5.5" EG.

My fiance (at least for now she's my fiance) has been with A LOT of guys (well over a hundred) and at 6.25" Girth she was scared to have sex with me. It worked out but it's still very tight. I haven't tried it out with any other women YET but I think it's safe to say that 6.25 is very big and probably well past the ideal for your average woman.

Buttercups and Messageman. You guys are humungous. I don't think I'd like to be that thick, scare off or hurt too many ladies!

4 Inch Girth isn't the end of the world, just means that even though I'm 6 inches long I can still qualify as small to some because of the lack of 'filling'.

I think anything under four would be inadequate to my mind (and probably a lot of women). Of course some guys don't care and can still get a lot of joy and excitement with small dicks.

I'm gonna say 4.4 and up is adequate Girth. In and around 5" being ideal.

Its true though, its not that simple. There are so many other factors involved.


Notwhatiusedtobe I just read your story. You have a big Dick too.

In fact, everybody that posted in this topic so far has a way bigger Cock than I do! You guys are all well above average. Lol. I have by far the thinnest penis out of the six of us. And I wouldn't be surprised if most of ye are longer too. Big Dick mofos.

My current girlfriend, 10 weeks now, is 44 years old and never had children. She loves my package and after a couple of sessions can handle all of me with no problem. She loves to go down on me even though she can only go about half way down and we have had anal sex twice now, which she was damn skeptical of initially, but both times had screaming orgasms and now loves it as well. I only got about half of my package in there but I
am 6.5 inches around at mid shaft and she handled that well. I also get her to squirt regularly using my fingers but she tells me she still prefers my junk over my fingers -- its not even close according to her. I have nothing but great experiences with my new size and that just reinforces what I felt throughout my "small" adult life prior to PE. At some point I may do a round four and shoot for 6.75 Inch mid shaft and 7.25 base and I would be surprised to find a woman that couldn't handle that. The vagina is amazing and as hard as I try to wear one out, it just never happens. lol

Skeptical One you went from 3.5 to 4.5 to 5.5. Those are three landmark sizes. From thin, to adequate, to thick.

What were your overall experiences like with each of those three sizes? I think it would be fascinating to get that kind of insight.






@dancewithdragons: I agree that 6.2 Girth is probably well above ideal for most women. I would bet you were the thickest out of those hundred guys. Hehe.

anon1 wrote: Buttercups and Messageman. You guys are humungous. I don't think I'd like to be that thick, scare off or hurt too many ladies!

4 Inch Girth isn't the end of the world, just means that even though I'm 6 inches long I can still qualify as small to some because of the lack of 'filling'.

I think anything under four would be inadequate to my mind (and probably a lot of women). Of course some guys don't care and can still get a lot of joy and excitement with small dicks.

I'm gonna say 4.4 and up is adequate Girth. In and around 5" being ideal.

Its true though, its not that simple. There are so many other factors involved.


Notwhatiusedtobe I just read your story. You have a big Dick too.

In fact, everybody that posted in this topic so far has a way bigger Cock than I do! You guys are all well above average. Lol. I have by far the thinnest penis out of the six of us. And I wouldn't be surprised if most of ye are longer too. Big Dick mofos.

My pre-op was thinner, though this was the last "competition" I was hoping to win hahah!

Last thing / this morning my wife told me my Dick is "scary big". She said "it causes a lot of friction"

I am only around 5.75 - 6.1" EG.

So for some I guess that is big enough/too big.

But as another commentor said it depends on the woman. I dated a Korean woman for whom 5.0 eg was def. big enough / too big.

Also I guess the woman's mood... Some days I'm sure she can handle it.

But Skeptical One, do you think that the tight woman with whom a below average Girth would have been sufficient would have enjoyed a thinner penis as much as she enjoyed yours (assuming that she did) ?

I honestly have no idea what size is "adequate" as there are too many others factors involved. Sex is just way too complex. I believe if you had the right attitude about it, 4x4 would be fine. But I don't have a good attitude about it, and worry a lot about size. Maybe you could be so small that they can't feel anything, or maybe too big that you hurt them, but that is penis size discussion cliche. "As long as you aren't tiny or gigantic, it's fine". We've all heard this. Many guys on here report differences in sex when they go up in Girth. From reading it seems going from say 4.75 to 5.5 eg can be a game changer, but going from 5.5 to higher, the difference is not as pronounced. Maybe the sex truly is better. Hard for me to say. I'm a rare case where I've gone down in Girth a bit, maybe .25 to .50. The three girls I've been with since the change who were with me before report no difference. And though I can tell a difference just in how I feel because it's me, sex still feels pretty much the same. Of course I get paranoid and think, "maybe they aren't moaning quite as much, maybe they aren't orgasming as hard", I'll never really know for sure.