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#  TOPIC: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1306224590](#1306224590)

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 What happened Ffs? These posts mess me up. I'm like a sad old woman watching my stories. I need to know!!

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1278140121](#1278140121)

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 Im so fucking confused right now. She actually broke up with me.. I begged her not to do it. But she said to just be friends. This was yesterday. Today i didnt contact her once. All contact was from her. Then jus now she called me. I texted her that im at the movies and ill call her when i get home. " I WAS LYING". SHE FLIPPED THE FUCK OUT!!. I dont know what game she is playing. I begged like a bitch for her to give me a chance. she would not go for it. So Today i took my Facebook page off private, changed my profile pic after 8 months of the same old picture.. AND... i took at least 30-45 minutes to respond back to her texts.. I guess she thought i was gonna sit around and pout " I DID KINDA"... But I aint let her see me break.. I bought a course on ''how to win your ex girlfriend back'' immediately after we broke up.. I know its crazy but i really love this girl and i know i was apart of the reason of her unattraction for me.. BUT BOY!!! This shit WORKS!!! and its only been 24 hours.. we're not Facebook friends but she controls her moms FB page so i know she saw the changes on my page.. I added a few hotties also.. But I KNOW for a fact now that shes not over me and I just lost the power and my dominance in the relationship and thats what turned her off.

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1278143193](#1278143193)

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 Don't lie, don't do anything extra, just move on! If you play these games and get her to want you back for what? You gave her everything (![heart](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/emoticons/heart.png "heart")) she took advantage of it and violated your trust! Make her history!!!! Put your energy into a different girl!! That would be the best in her face anyways, new hotty that is into you. I know you love her but the games you are playing on her now are exactly what she was doing to you and why you were just being drug around by your balls. !!!! You seem to be to good of a guy to put up with this bullshit!!! I can't say it enough , no games no nothing, move on and the best way to get the emotions to move on is go get a new women! Good luck, sorry you are going through this but, you are not the only guy! Just be glad you were not married to her and had kids! You got off easy!! Now get out and find a great girl!! I want a new thread of your new relationship and can't believe you wasted 6 months on this women!!! Go get em!!!!

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1278120672](#1278120672)

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 SOOOOoo we broke up. worst day of my life

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1278125804](#1278125804)

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 New1Inch, sorry to here your break-up was painful but pleased for you to have moved forward.

I didn't want to mention this while you were still with her but my feeling is she may have been getting the sex somewhere else.

I make a point of stating it now so you aren't tempted to move backwards and get back together.

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

   13 years 2 months ago [\#1278075374](#1278075374)

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 I agree with DWD.

How much longer you willing to hang in there before discovering if things will change? If its another 18mths for example, what if your discovery is she will not change?

One of my best mates got married to a girl also not into sex. To cut a long story short, he was with her for 5 years and they did not have sex once the entire 5-year marriage, not once! He was holding out for change that never came... given a second-chance he'd have bailed much earlier.

If she won't even talk about it, then the path to change is even more clouded.

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##  Re: Together 6 months.. No sex.. Whats up?

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 Deeper level includes sex. Sex is about sharing.

If she is having issues with sex it can be understood from what you describe, but she must also understand what it means to you. If she cannot or does not want to, leave her. If she can hear what you have to say and can, within one or two days, decide to accept the reality of what you said and how you feel, then she will realize that she must do something.

If not, either she does not care about you or she is simply totally stuck with her own problems. Whether you want to spend years trying to fix a broken person, or not, is your personal choice. I have understood that we cannot change people who do not want to change. In such a case I would move on to someone else, because life is precious and, helping people is a full time job. Not mine.

There is one book that could help .it is called " The erotic mind : unlocking the inner sources of passion and fulfillment" by Jack Morin. In fact it is a great read for pretty much everyone.

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