--- title: "How many of us..? - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "How many of us here actually give the rest of our bodies the attention we give our dicks? It seems like we're so fascinated and determined to have bigger units..." url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/love-lust-vanity/5695254-how-many-of-us.html" date: "2026-08-06T14:01:34+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: How many of us..? ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272109357](#1272109357) - **[Skeptical\_One](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile")** - [![Skeptical_One's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1704847.png?1781856569)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4979 - Thanks: 613 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704847) For me, I truly believe that once I can move on from my PE pursuits, other aspects of self-image will take on similar priority (albeit maybe not as intense). I really want to be as marketable as possible, and if it weren't for my size hang-ups, I'd have already been more conscious of other image "flaws." I will say, however, that I have made strides in physical fitness and appearance (style, attire, etc) since I've come to realize killing two birds with one stone is far more efficient in achieving my long-term goals, even in light of the fact that PE is at the steering wheel. I'd also consider myself a decent-looking dude with good sociability and a large network of friends & family, all of which keep me on my toes when it comes to overall (healthy) self-image. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272109657](#1272109657) - **[Androgen](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile")** - [![Androgen's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 44 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1853690) Skeptical, It's understandable that PE takes the front seat so to speak, as the intimate nature of the area, and the emotional damage that can be done from comments regarding it are a bit more severe. Think about if a girl says you're ugly, it hurts far less than if she says you have a small Dick. It's nice to see that you acknowledge the importance of other aspects of personal appearance and enhancement. I see far to many men thinking "all I need is a big Dick and I'll be set." I think it's also important to note that if we truly want a real relationship, we also need to focus on our mental game as well. Perhaps learning another language, increasing and broadening our vocabulary, learning how to cook etc. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272113019](#1272113019) - **[ndbig1](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725157-ndbig1.html "View ndbig1's Profile")** - [![ndbig1's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725157-ndbig1.html "View ndbig1's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1725157-ndbig1.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 96 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1725157) I have looked into lipo and dental work in TJ also. I am trying to address all my aesthetic issues. I want to be a complete package at 40 (1.5 yrs away). Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272115371](#1272115371) - **[Mexmuscle](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765440-mexmuscle.html "View Mexmuscle's Profile")** - [![Mexmuscle's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765440-mexmuscle.html "View Mexmuscle's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765440-mexmuscle.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 241 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1765440) Good point. In my case, my PE focus grew after I had paid attention first to my body and mind. I just couldnt believe there was 'nothing' one could do to improve ourselves down there while there were many things one could do for the rest, naturally or comestically. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272114367](#1272114367) - **[PMMA\_someday\_soon](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html "View PMMA_someday_soon's Profile")** - [![PMMA_someday_soon's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html "View PMMA_someday_soon's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 50 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1765971) I think I give the rest of my body a fair amount of attention. One of the primary reasons I started looking into PE was to bring it into line with the rest of my build- I felt (and still feel) that it's one of my weaker points, and I very much want to be 'the complete package' I can speak another language. It's a constructed language created for a sci-fi movie. But if I ever move to Pandora... Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272176587](#1272176587) - **[PMMA\_someday\_soon](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html "View PMMA_someday_soon's Profile")** - [![PMMA_someday_soon's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html "View PMMA_someday_soon's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1765971-pmma-someday-soon.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 50 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1765971) Physique is still my primary focus over and above anything to do with my genitals. My aim is to get to and then maintain >100kg at Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272109031](#1272109031) - **[Androgen](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile")** - [![Androgen's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 44 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1853690) How many of us here actually give the rest of our bodies the attention we give our dicks? It seems like we're so fascinated and determined to have bigger units that we seem to neglect the other important things. Grooming, fitness, etc. For me, the fitness/physique area was always my number one focus, it wasn't untill recently (about a year) that I began feeling the need to enhance my package. I think if we truly want to be happy with ourselves, we need to focus on offering the "entire package", instead of just a big Dick. Let's face it, looks are just as important as anything else in life. Granted a true meaningful relationship should never be based on physical aspects alone, it doesn't hurt to know your partner is physically attracted to you throughout the relationship. After all, 9 times out of 10 you approach a woman because of how she looks/dresses/acts. You generally don't experience her personality first. What are your thoughts? Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: How many of us..? 14 years 6 months ago [\#1272175850](#1272175850) - **[Androgen](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile")** - [![Androgen's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html "View Androgen's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1853690-androgen.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 44 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1853690) @ Mexmuscle My original focus was my physique as well, and while this still takes a majority of my focus, I've learned that in order to truly offer all I can in a relationship I need to grow as an individual both physically and mentally. Glad there are others who feel the same Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9sb3ZlLWx1c3QtdmFuaXR5LzU2OTUyNTQtaG93LW1hbnktb2YtdXMuaHRtbD9tYXJrZG93bj0x) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. 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