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#  TOPIC: Looking for support

##  Looking for support

   8 years 8 months ago [\#1301958149](#1301958149)

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 Hello,

I have been on and off this site for the last 5-6 mouths. I am looking at going to TJ to have PMMA done. But would like to know how safe is it? what are the side effects? I know once you have the surgery you cannot remove the PMMA. Can you please share some short story of your pros and cons. if I was going to get it done in the next couple months what should I be doing first to prep myself. Maybe I just don't have the confidence yet, to get it done.

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##  Re: Looking for support

   8 years 8 months ago [\#1301958223](#1301958223)

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> natebc wrote: Hello,
>
> I have been on and off this site for the last 5-6 mouths. I am looking at going to TJ to have PMMA done. But would like to know how safe is it? what are the side effects? I know once you have the surgery you cannot remove the PMMA. Can you please share some short story of your pros and cons. if I was going to get it done in the next couple months what should I be doing first to prep myself. Maybe I just don't have the confidence yet, to get it done.

I don't want to seem unhelpful, but you've been a member for over 2 years and there are a shit load of progress reports and numerous general threads about PMMA. I really think you should read as many of those as possible before making a decision. Don't base it on a few bullet points of pros and cons from the odd guy who is kind enough to spare a few minutes for you.

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##  Re: Looking for support

   8 years 8 months ago [\#1301959027](#1301959027)

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> Gg82 wrote: I agree with Hoddle.
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> You could start with this great thread by Dream: [ phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/the...28420?pid=1299928611](http://phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/the-best-threads-of-the-forum-a-linkcollection-8428420?pid=1299928611)

I second this....start here!!!!

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##  Re: Looking for support

   8 years 8 months ago [\#1301958265](#1301958265)

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 I agree with Hoddle.

You could start with this great thread by Dream: [ phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/the...28420?pid=1299928611](http://phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/the-best-threads-of-the-forum-a-linkcollection-8428420?pid=1299928611)

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