--- title: "Did you tell anyone before the operation? - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "Was thinking a bit about telling female friend or/and fuckbuddy about it. But then decided not to. Because what shall they say, of course 'don't do it'. Did..." url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/general-phalloplasty-discussion-archive/8511032-did-you-tell-anyone-before-the-operation.html" date: "2026-08-06T21:16:01+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Did you tell anyone before the operation? ## Re: Did you tell anyone before the operation? 9 years 2 months ago [\#1295707650](#1295707650) - **[mike81](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4754201-mike81.html "View mike81's Profile")** - [![mike81's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4754201-mike81.html "View mike81's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4754201-mike81.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 73 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4754201) Unless it's completely unavoidable, don't tell anyone ever. 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Just tell us here...LOL... Let your lady tell you how she feels but deny deny deny, tell her : you just turn me on so much I am the biggest I have ever been! 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But then decided not to. Because what shall they say, of course 'don't do it'. Did not think about telling a friend about it. Perhaps because i don't have a friend. Omg, this just occured to me. In the beginning i told a former fuckbuddy and now female friend, but i just told about the possibility and i didn't know much then. She said 'oh no, imagine if something goes wrong with the nerves and it doesn't work anymore'. I didn't know that this risk is just not there with PMMA. 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What's the deal? I'll go search your posts if you've already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem. My excuses will just have to be more elaborate. Maybe I'll "tear my groin" at the gym. > And yeah- 3 weeks till PMMA and Doc C. Definetly just keep it a secret and see what she says. 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I have a weekend thing / girlfriend.. I get the surgery on Tues, wont see her till Sat. I could pull an I'm tired/sick hold her off till Monday when she leaves then I have until the next Friday night to heal up. I am not going to tell her, because I want to see if she notices WITHOUT me telling her. I think that an "umm are you bigger?" would be worth the money right there. 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Will see gf for first time after procedure next week. I'm nervous. There is quite a change, kind of hope she doesn't notice. There will be tears from her if she does. Doesn't want me doing anything to my body. When she found out I was using steroids she ended up in a hell of a state. Caring girl. Hope this doesn't mess things up. 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BSEG Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvODUxMTAzMi1kaWQteW91LXRlbGwtYW55b25lLWJlZm9yZS10aGUtb3BlcmF0aW9uLmh0bWw/bWFya2Rvd249MQ==) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Did you tell anyone before the operation? 9 years 2 months ago [\#1295707287](#1295707287) - **[chester](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html "View chester's Profile")** - [![chester's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html "View chester's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/4437325-chester.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 808 - Thanks: 11 - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4437325) Brock, if you're getting PMMA, i'd counsel you to wait at least a month before intercourse. Perhaps longer. 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What's the deal? I'll go search your posts if you've already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem. The deal is let your Dick heal and recuperate. Let the swelling come down completely before any kind of sexual activity. 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What's the deal? I'll go search your posts if you've already explained. But hell.. if it helps long term results, a month is no problem. My excuses will just have to be more elaborate. Maybe I'll "tear my groin" at the gym. And yeah- 3 weeks till PMMA and Doc C. 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Your best bet is saying you're having work - unrelated to PMMA - on your Dick - as it will be swollen and bruised for a while. 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Friend was supportive but no surprise there as they are a sizeking In fairness they told me a year before of surgery they were going to get done so felt this would be a good person too talk to about it plus they are very openminded and would not judge. Obviously if you have a partner say it but it would not be the first thing to to say to a new partner..... It does not sound the most Alpha thing and they also might think you are insecure. 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