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#  TOPIC: I have a small penis and erectile dysfunction. I have been feeling recently. How to make average?

##  Re: I have a small penis and erectile dysfunction. I have been feeling suicidal recently. Is there anything I can do to get to average?

   10 years 6 months ago [\#1290559997](#1290559997)

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 First of all 4.5 inches is not average by any stretch of the imagination.

Many girls have rejected me after seeing my size outright. I'm not trying to be an adonis I just want a healthy sex life.

I have stopped using the pump for good and haven't touched my penis. But the lack of erections aren't a good thing.

I spoke with my parents about this and they are telling me I should hold off until after I graduate college. They are saying no to trt but I need it.

So basically I'm on my own. I need to get my own job and deal with this.

I am 21 right now and it's hard for me to deal with this ordeal. Most people my age are having sex. People are always wondering why I am so insecure despite my physique and personality.

I really can't just put this situation on hold and come back to it. I need to rectify the problem.

At worst I would like to have my old size back.

None of the doctors I've seen so far have helped me. I don't want to take pills I have taken the Cialis before and it just gives me a headache.

I want to find a doctor who will help me work through this.

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