TOPIC: From A Woman | How To Raise The Subject That I Know?

If he hasn't mentioned it to you at all over this period of time, it's clearly a very sensitive matter to him. This forum is also an anonymous outlet for many men, keep that in mind. He may have pursued penis enlargement to better enhance sex/love life, but still lives in a society where penis enlargement is taboo & embarrassing. I've always encouraged men to be completely honest with their significant others, but it's not always that simple. I don't think his decision to withhold info from you was rooted in deceit, but rather, embarrassment and insecurity. Well that's just a guess. Regardless, I wouldn't bring it up. It's not like you came here and found out he was posting pictures of other women he was sleeping with. In reality, his acts were hardly transgressions, just very personal endeavors. I'd leave it alone.

But yea, crazy you came across the post. Crazy!

I know who the member is and don't think he'd be happy about this thread. If you read through all his posts you can tell penis size has always been a big deal to him and how it effects his confidence with women. If he wanted his GF to know he would have told her. He did this before he met her. It's been a real catharsis for him and shouldn't we all, @hewillnevertell, included, just be happy for the guy. He clearly want to put the past and his old insecurities behind him, so lets just let him do that. It's not as if he's keeping a major secret from you, like he's married, has children or is bi-sexual. As far as secrets go, this one is about as understandable as it gets. Worrying about the fact he's keeping it from you turns the issue to being about you. it was his issue and he dealt with it before he met you.

He hasn't logged on since this thread was started, so why don't we just delete it?

I never went through his computer. Never touched it, nor thought about touching it. I also tried not to be too specific because I don't want him to know who posted here. do want to delete the topic though, so how do I do so?

Why the ##### are you on the same exact board he is a member on? Are you taking perverse pleasure in this? why the hell would you do this to somebody you ostensibly care about?
I truly hope your ridiculous antiics have illuminated how to broach this sensitive subject because you are obviously emotionally crippled and lack zero common sense to navigate this yourself. Be sure to relay to your boyfriend all the details about you going on the very same board he has revealed his soul to and the breatheren he has anonymously confided in...because we know how important it is for you not to have any secrets from one another...