--- title: "Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "I had a chat with member "kapitalizam," about the unfortunate side effects (for some, not all) of this forum. This forum started... - Page 2" url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/general-phalloplasty-discussion-archive/6609717-unintended-side-effects-with-frequent-use-of-forum.html?start=15" date: "2026-08-06T17:57:55+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280251533](#1280251533) - **[pontest](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile")** - [![pontest's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 86 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2049618) Sizemic: I'm a roid user and you don't know how much it helps picking up women in a bar if you have 16-17inch arms. Women are put off only by professional bodybuilders, who are too large for their taste. The same thing with PMMA: going to 7.0-7.5 inches will be too much for the average woman. But if you want to go to 6.0 to 6.5 inches, that will make a hell of a difference in your sex life. That's all Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280271509](#1280271509) - **[thehulk](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile")** - [![thehulk's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html "View thehulk's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2015344-thehulk.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 480 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2015344) I will.admit, even after one round this site.became a negative impact in terms of wanting more. Not sure if anyone noticed but I did take about a four month break to clear my head. but I.do value the website a lot. Good to be back somewhat with a clear head. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280541856](#1280541856) - **[hoddle10](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html "View hoddle10's Profile")** - [![hoddle10's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html "View hoddle10's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 3120 - Thanks: 50 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704891) > 9_in_richard wrote: Let me re-phrase that from the perspective of someone involved in the weight lifting community.....from the perspective of the gym rat....16-17" arm size is not a big arm. Bodybuilders, weight lifters, power lifters who frequent the bodybuilding forums (some, not all of course) often have some degree of body dysmorphia themselves.....similar to those on penis forums in regard to "average" vs enhanced. > > I'm 5'9" 192lbs @ 10% BF, 48" chest, 32" waist, 17-17.5" arm and by most people that know me, they consider me a "big", muscular, strong guy. I consider myself a smaller to average build. My perception is skewed because I compare myself to the guys in my community who are 60" chests, 22+" biceps, etc,etc.....it is all relative to your "norm". Compared to average joe....yeah, I'm pretty muscular....but I do not compare myself to average Joe. > > Most likely, if my bicep reaches 20", then I will look elsewhere for improvement. Weightlifting, much like PE is a journey.....not a destination. There is always room to improve ones self. My opinion of course. From a gym rats point on view, you have big biceps! There is no getting around it, at your size, with a low body fat, those arms are big. Here is how I see it. If you saw another guy with your same dimensions, you'd think his arms were big. If he was stood right next to you, you'd probably want to ask what his diet and routine is that gave him arms that size. But at the same time, he'd probably be looking at your arms, wondering how you got them to be so much bigger than his. That's all part of the dysmporphia. Check this guy out. He's that same height as you, but 2lbs lighter, with a touch more body fat. [ forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=149702203](http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=149702203) He's not crazy huge, like pro bodybuilders, but by any gym rat standards his biceps would considered big. Bodybuilding and PE are so similar. You see guys here with huge penises comparing themselves with the likes of Shane Diesel and thus not considering themselves big. Even though we have gone miles off topic, we are actually getting to the ![heart](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/emoticons/heart.png "heart") of what this thread is about. Hanging around here is like hanging around a gym full of bodybuilders and it can be hazardous to ones mental health. It's so easy to develop of warped perception in certain environments. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280246953](#1280246953) - **[Skeptical\_One](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile")** - [![Skeptical_One's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1704847.png?1781856569)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4979 - Thanks: 613 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704847) > SpankAss wrote: site hasnt had that affect on me and in fact had the opposite ... its nice seeing other dudes with average size penis's or smaller then mine...i thought being 7 inches wasnt that big compared to porn or what i think girls "MIGHT" want but then coming here alot of you have even discouraged me from getting anything done which is refreshing seeing the honesty and even thought i will someday get the PMMA done its not that big of a deal to me anymore > > also most of the stuff some of you posted about previous girls seem like there the ones with insecurity issues and problems since they cant be happy loving someone for a all around aspect and they just focus on one thing... Dick size...those kind of women are not the ones u want to end up with or bring home to mom anyways. Many of you on here with women or wives that have said they dont care about your size are the keepers....even though some of you still got it and they might like the bigger size there not fixated on only that in loving you...good women right there > > idk i dont see this site the prob for people like kapitalizm but rather himself and if he cant handle the site and not let it control him then he prob shouldnt be on the site until he cant control his own insecurities or any one for that matter. its the same saying as "guns dont kill people, people kill people" .... same principal applies here. > > also the site helps with many other areas of knowledge in PE and everything else as in doing things without surgery and trying ways of stretching and what not so its more helpful then hurtful > > just sayn And that's why I'm using the term "side effects." Just like medication, not everyone experiences the negative side effects that can come with taking dosages, but some do. Those who don't (like yourself) experience the site for all its worth, approach it with a level-head and learn when to "retire" when everything is said and done. There are others, however, who perceive/absorb/interpret the information obtained here to their detriment. It's all about recognizing the problem. You, Spankass, have acknowledged responsible use and positive gain from this forum, so a thread like this wasn't really addressing you or men of your mindset. Members like Kapitalizm (and I assure you there are others), have acknowledged the issue, and it is in their best interest to reduce and/or discontinue forum usage for their own sake. Whether this site is at fault or not isn't really all that important, what is obvious is that this site can serve to exacerbate the problems for those who aren't mentally prepared to enter the world of online PE. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280535728](#1280535728) - **[hoddle10](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html "View hoddle10's Profile")** - [![hoddle10's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html "View hoddle10's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704891-hoddle10.html) - Moderator - ![Moderator](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rankmod.gif) - Posts: 3120 - Thanks: 50 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704891) > 9_in_richard wrote: Remember.....It's all relative. The arm thing for instance; A 16-17" bicep is not a big bicep by any stretch of the imagination (not a slam as I have a 17.5" bicep myself and it's not "big"). Now, you put a 17" bicep on a guy who is 5'7" and 155lbs, it looks pretty big. If you put that same bicep on a guy who is 6'3" and 245lbs.....eh, not so much! > > The same thing applies to your schlong. You watch a porn flick and see a guy, lifesize is 5'6" and 140lbs, on screen who happens to be endowed with a 7" EL x 5.5" EG, banging a porn actress who is 5' and 104lbs.....well, you get the picture! Looks like gigantic schlong man is slaying average beauty queen with a massive tool! Yes it is! assuming we aren't talking fatceps a "natural" 17" bicep is big. Maybe it wont look so big on a 6ft 3" guy, but the average height is about 5ft 10" and the average bicep is about 14". Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280247989](#1280247989) - **[Skeptical\_One](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile")** - [![Skeptical_One's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1704847.png?1781856569)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4979 - Thanks: 613 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704847) @ Sizemic Great post, all of you are making this a good conversation! This thread really ought to be in the "Love, Lust, & Vanity" section but I thought it was of high importance and it would get better visibility in this sub-forum. Interesting take on the PMMA mental cycle, it's this kind of insight I hope many others get a chance to read! You even acknowledged that it was possible this site has the potential to "mess with your head." But on the same token, I bet you've found a lot of answers about penis size, sex, etc as a consequence of being a member here too. I think the lesson here is balance. 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Bodybuilders, weight lifters, power lifters who frequent the bodybuilding forums (some, not all of course) often have some degree of body dysmorphia themselves.....similar to those on penis forums in regard to "average" vs enhanced. I'm 5'9" 192lbs @ 10% BF, 48" chest, 32" waist, 17-17.5" arm and by most people that know me, they consider me a "big", muscular, strong guy. I consider myself a smaller to average build. My perception is skewed because I compare myself to the guys in my community who are 60" chests, 22+" biceps, etc,etc.....it is all relative to your "norm". Compared to average joe....yeah, I'm pretty muscular....but I do not compare myself to average Joe. Most likely, if my bicep reaches 20", then I will look elsewhere for improvement. Weightlifting, much like PE is a journey.....not a destination. There is always room to improve ones self. My opinion of course. 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Dick size...those kind of women are not the ones u want to end up with or bring home to mom anyways. Many of you on here with women or wives that have said they dont care about your size are the keepers....even though some of you still got it and they might like the bigger size there not fixated on only that in loving you...good women right there idk i dont see this site the prob for people like kapitalizm but rather himself and if he cant handle the site and not let it control him then he prob shouldnt be on the site until he cant control his own insecurities or any one for that matter. its the same saying as "guns dont kill people, people kill people" .... same principal applies here. also the site helps with many other areas of knowledge in PE and everything else as in doing things without surgery and trying ways of stretching and what not so its more helpful then hurtful just sayn Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280243405](#1280243405) - **[pontest](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile")** - [![pontest's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 86 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2049618) I understand you POV. But I'm not interested in commitment right now. I'd rather build a casual relationship with multiple women. If a get to be 6.25 I'll be in the 99,5 percentile at least! BTW, the swinger site is the ideal place to get data about what women desire the most because it's usually experienced and sexually uninhibited women who post there. 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At the same time there I think there is a difference between guys who look down and see "small" and those who would just desire to be bigger. I know that I am not below average, but I would still like to have a little more size. It is more for personal satisfaction than anything else. However, I can see where any site dealing with penile size (or porn, etc.) can definitely feed into underlying insecurities, warranted or not. I do want to say that this site has come a long way from the launch of the first version and it's members never fail to be supportive of each other. Kudos on creating and cultivating such a great environment. 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Despite what we are force fed on the internet via porn and sadly sites like this, penis size really isn't a big priority. You are a thousand times more likely to meet a potential girl friend in bars, cafes, through friends etc than you are on swinger sites. So maybe you are looking in the wrong place and thus focusing on the wrong things. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280243432](#1280243432) - **[pontest](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile")** - [![pontest's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 86 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2049618) I forgot to say that I like rough sex, so a larger Girth will probably make me more dominant, make her feel a little more pain . Do you think they don't like that? Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280243441](#1280243441) - **[pontest](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile")** - [![pontest's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html "View pontest's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2049618-pontest.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 86 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2049618) kapitalizm: I'm 26 Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Unintended Side Effects with Frequent Use of Forum 12 years 8 months ago [\#1280242934](#1280242934) - **[kapitalizam](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2213182-kapitalizam.html "View kapitalizam's Profile")** - [![kapitalizam's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2213182-kapitalizam.html "View kapitalizam's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/general-forum/user/2213182-kapitalizam.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 28 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=2213182) As SO explained, the forum has had a bad impact on me, although i have to say that I have gathered valuable information about enhancement procedures. As i was obsessively reading threads almost every day, from progress reports, to procedures etc, I got to a point that I was so obsessed with my penis that it completely took over my life. Literally it devoured every productive aspect of my old self, and I became an unproductive piece of shit, thinking bout my Dick all day long, and obsessively checking it out if it is Hanging good or not. This obsession mixed with dismorphia had been slowly creeping on me for the last 2 years as I proceeded lurking for enhancement procedures, and watching porn for PE exercises (not a good idea). It got so out of control that i couldn't control the urge of constantly checking my junk if it is there or not. Depression was pretty severe as well. i went from perfectly normal to a unproductive piece of shit, looking at his Dick all the time. It sounds pretty pathetic, but it is real and it can happen to anyone. Not to mention the fact that i have a perfectly normal and functional penis, and have been sleeping with girls all the time. My relationship fell apart, mostly to my fault because i lost interest in sex, watching all this porn, and thinking bout how small i am (which is an illusion, created by obsession, and watching Shane Diesel ))) nothing could turn me on , and the last thing on my mind was my girlfriend. As i said i'm normal-good size, but who wants to be normal after all on this forum???????????????? Well I did, before reading members getting 6 Girth and even over it. Or dropping to 5,75 after couple rounds and wanting to go back to 6". is all good, one can get as much as he likes, as long as it makes one happy, but the educational purpose of the forum in my opinion is starting to fade away. And the numbers have gone up quite a bit. There was a time when 5 Girth was considered good, and it still is among women, but who cares bout women here anyway??? Is all Cock -a duddle doo!!! i now I once did care bout women, but not any more... now i only care bout my self and my fat Cock that i'm going to get some day for a couple of $$$ so I can look at it in the mirror all day long and be like ""fuuuck yeaaaa, I made it in life man". Anyway, i speak for my self, and this last part was a little sarcastic, not trying to offend no one... So my advice to anyone who will relate to this topic, take it easy on the forum, don't read obsessively every day, if you feel obsessed, lay it of for week or two, or months, or forever... and whatever you do, make sure you make a decision with clear mind, never rush things.. as I almost did... Not saying I won't do PMMA sometime, but I will make sure that my mind is as clear as possible when i choose to do so...because chances are if you have dismporphia, you will come back for more, and more and more.... and more .. and maybe some more... -Kapitalizam- Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZ2VuZXJhbC1mb3J1bS9nZW5lcmFsLXBoYWxsb3BsYXN0eS1kaXNjdXNzaW9uLWFyY2hpdmUvNjYwOTcxNy11bmludGVuZGVkLXNpZGUtZWZmZWN0cy13aXRoLWZyZXF1ZW50LXVzZS1vZi1mb3J1bS5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTEmc3RhcnQ9MTU=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. 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