TOPIC: How BIG should we go? Honestly...

90% of this board is about the procedure and who does it, I'd keep reading.
But, you got the first part right about it having potential very serious consequences - now or later, keep reading about those too. Still not sure if you are real but I'd leave really good alone, or make a list of all the potential bad outcomes you read about on here and ask yourself if you are good with having those before you do anything.

I wish I could have that mentality of dont let anything hold me back just go and smash just like 100% of my friends I grew up with had. All of them had the sexual freedom I dreamed of. I would have probably bagged a couple hundred by now at least well that's how many girls were interested in me back then, but I had a botched circ that ruined my life. I pushed every girl away when it came down to being sexual(we should just be friends) After years of that I gave up I was done.

Eightbysix416 wrote: My apologies for entering this thread apparently uninformed. I feel I need to intrude because I was under the distinct impression that legitimate medical/surgical options regarding increasing Dick size were either extremely dangerous and prone to failure or were simply myth. Its something I've literally dreamed about for years and to hear that its actually possible is... Amazing. I'm saving up already... I'm already 8" long with a 6" circumference and realistically should just be happy with what I've got and shut up... Its something I've wanted for years though and if the possibility to get bigger via some procedure/surgery exists, consequences be damned, I'm in. Can I ask where I might find information about this procedure? I would very much appreciate any suggestions. Just as an aside, I'm not trolling or bragging. I would just very much like to be able to look at myself and be happy with what I see. Thank you again.

Isn't that a bit of a contradiction?

I would love to go 8+ Girth. But it should be noted my long term wife can easily take my fist no lube or 2X 6-7+ Inch dildos at same time. No bullshit.
She would put the girls on BrutalDildos to shame. But it did take a lot of time and effort to get like this. Yes we like it kinkier than most.
I would think most girls would see 6 inches of Girth and go "wow holy shit, got any lube"
I think most child bearing woman would see 6.5-7 Inch Girth and go "fuck, that is really thick, got any lube"
Just my thoughts from an old man who's been on the dancefloor many times
Hope all my PMMA brothers are well

I think the reason ave size guys feel they are small when with women is that the guys that are huge don't hold back and tap a lot of pussy, so even though one is ave, women see more of the bigger dicks because they are not holding back. So the fact that Big john's experience was what it was, although he was truly ave. women are getting exposed to bigger dicks disproportionately because they are out tapping ass and not holding back while the ave or smaller guys are missing out on opportunities because they are self conscious about their size! I do agree that most women prefer a bigger Dick, but I do question if it is as important as we men make it out to be. Little off topic but just a thought.

When I started down the PE road more than a decade ago, I knew I was small. Regardless that most claims show I was average, every girl I had ever been with had likely been with someone bigger- that's probably a very true statement. I then did the experiment with the cyberskin extenders and found out with a small number of girls, that YES it fits!, and they love it. PMMA is dangerous mentally as almost all of us will see an enormous Girth caused by swelling and then the eventual shrinkage that leaves us less than the biggest we've been. I remember after my first procedure I was thinking, Holy S***!, this thing is huge and it wasn't even at 6" Girth. After my second procedure I had a girl tell me I was gargantuan and I'm still smiling from that comment. At close to 6.5" now I still look at myself and think I'm not very big even though I'm def in the top 20% of all men and maybe even more. I guess for me it's the fastest gun syndrome. I don't ever want a woman to see me and not be the biggest she's ever seen. Ego? Perhaps but I think more of a culmination of my sexual experiences in the past and a desire to never go back to those days again. Brothers, I actually steered away from some beautiful women because I didn't want to pull out my little shooter when push came to shove. Those days are long gone - too bad I'm so old now!!! lol

I think another thing worth mentioning that soreness from sex isn't just due to size, but the type and ferocity of sex performed. I think in a ongoing relationship and less "showy" sex, a larger Girth is okay, while with one-night stands and hookups where there's less familiarity and perhaps more ferocity, you might get complaints or lack of pure positive feedback. I'm not saying regular monogamous sex can't be ferocious, I just think its more mutually considerate.

Female porn actors have to deal with a lot of rough sex, for long periods of time, in weird positions, its not really natural and they're obviously going to not look forward for massive guys.

When I first started Dr Guinta put it in my head that I could have a 7.5" Girth so I took that and ran with it. I eventually reduced my goal to 6.75 and sat on that till I had my procedure. Once I reached 6.7 with swelling I quickly realized that it was too big. During my lowest measurement I recorded a 6.45" Girth and was very pleased. Since I have gained even more than post swelling. I have measured 6.8 (current) but my other measurements have increased making it proportionate which has helped with aesthetics. My wife actually loves the new size, and while she admits to being sore she says its perfect. I tend to agree as the sex is more enjoyable for both parties. This isn't a one size fits all argument, life is diverse and will only continue getting more so. The size that was once desireable is no longer the max. Because only those patients who viewed it as a last resort werr getting the virtually unknown procedure. More and more patients with larger starting sizes are starting to skew the lines. I included myself in this category. But its those numbers that make new members feel like they have to have the 6"+.

Perception is reality. Just because one man views another as having a large penis does not mean he perceives his self as being large. We are different. That makes us great!

My apologies for entering this thread apparently uninformed. I feel I need to intrude because I was under the distinct impression that legitimate medical/surgical options regarding increasing Dick size were either extremely dangerous and prone to failure or were simply myth. Its something I've literally dreamed about for years and to hear that its actually possible is... Amazing. I'm saving up already...

I'm already 8" long with a 6" circumference and realistically should just be happy with what I've got and shut up... Its something I've wanted for years though and if the possibility to get bigger via some procedure/surgery exists, consequences be damned, I'm in.

Can I ask where I might find information about this procedure? I would very much appreciate any suggestions.

Just as an aside, I'm not trolling or bragging. I would just very much like to be able to look at myself and be happy with what I see. Thank you again.

Thank you for the very wise advice. It is easy to attribute many of our problems in life due to an insecurity like penis size. When in all reality it was really abuse by our caregivers, or in this case your older sister, that planted the seed that we are not enough.

I have to ask though are you happy with Dr Elist ? I have never met the guy, but many here consider him a sociopath. Most implant patients report horrific results. I am not trying to stir the pot, but rather just get your view of his work and reputation ?

CrazyGreggs wrote: I think you should go as large as you feel compelled to. Hell its a life we only get to live once, and if enlarging your penis makes you happy then do it. I have been in manual penis enlargement for 8 months and gained one Inch in that time. Now looking at surgery as well. I love it!

Yes, except that there are consequences to "going as large as you feel compelled to." If there were no risks with penis enlargement methods, then hell, why wouldn't every man pursue a larger unit, even for the hell of it. Fact is, in this "one life we have to life," our penis is incredibly important to us, and attempts at enlarging it have not always had desirable results. In other words, penis enlargement (surgery specifically) isn't for everyone, and even manual penis enlargement has had its fair share of victims... and that's a sobering truth.

Sizemic
Great topic for a thread .

I believe that most my motivation stems from psychological issues . Back when I was just starting out sexually I was at least average but somehow convinced that I just didn't measure up. Coincidentally, that's how I was in most other avenues in my life at the time...academics, sports, popularity , etc. In retrospect, I was above average in most areas but I had an overwhelming sense of inferiority. I believe that most of this had to do with my father who, though loving in many ways, made it clear that He didn't feel I measure up to the rest of the family (or society in general).

Somehow I equated (with the help of porn and social pressures) that a good male lover was equated with the size of his Dick. As a young man in his late teens and early twenties my sexual performance (technique and EQ) were negatively affected by these pressures, and as a result I embarked on my "PE journey"....Something that would become an obsession over the following two decades.

I have gone from 6.3 inches (length) by 5 inches (Girth) to 8 inches (length) by 7.5 inches (Girth) and everywhere in between. I have slept with scores of women (well over 50) , and believe I am in a very suitable role to voice an opinion on whether size matters and how big is "too big".

First of all though, for me, having a large penis size has always been a huge turn-on and confidence booster for me. This has in turn improved my confidence and excitement with sex immeasurably. This point (for me) cannot be underestimated because much (most) of sex is in the brain. And when I am turned on and excited, so is my partner...and magical things do happen.

Regarding the ideal length... This reminds me of the old saying, "how long is the ideal piece of string?" It really depends on the case, and in this case, it's your partner.
Currently I am 8 inches Erect. I actually measured it the other day when I had a full hard-on while watching porn). I usually (obsessively) measure "stretched length", but thought, "why not do a conventional measuring, for ol' time's sake?" Just looking at the 8 Inch increment aligned with my penis head made me feel like I did when I graduated from college. An immense feeling of accomplishment, with sporadic images of all the highs and lows of my PE journey dancing around my head.
Well, how do the women like my 8 Inch penis? Well, judging from the only partner I have now...She loves it.
She is in her early 30s and has a child, and she could probably classified as a "size queen". One thing I think is interesting to note. A few months ago, my length increased (suddenly) about 1/4 of an Inch. I have always continued to do manual stretching and have worn an all-day-stretcher about 4 hours a day. For the longest time I had no increase in length, but then suddenly...presto, there was an increase. This just goes to show you guys that perseverance pays off! Anyway, after I had hit about 8 inches, I was (suddenly) able to easily hit her cul-de-sac, giving her the ability to have tremendously strong (squirting) orgasms. I am not saying that this would be the same for all women, but in the case of my current lover, she definitely appreciates the extra length. And even 1/4 of an Inch can make a difference.
On the opposite end, back when I was in my twenties (when I was around 6.75 inches in length , a few of the girls found my penis too long....So I guess, it really all depends on how your lover is built and what turns her o.

And regarding ideal Girth. When I started out, I was 5 inches in Girth. A very respectable Girth to be sure, and definitely sufficient to give most women women satisfaction. However, when I was in my 'heyday', back in my twenties, my 6+ Inch gave a "wow" factor that definitely enhanced the sex physically and psychologically.
My current 7.5 Inch Girth (base) is basically guaranteed to be the thickest a woman has ever experienced. My present lover loves it, but (again) she is rather an exception., I really don't know how other women would react to it. I am guessing some women would have the " I just hit the jackpot) reaction, while others might just shake their heads and say "no way".

Anyway... This is just my 2 cents....

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@jlmb especially if they also escort on the side. One big D will put them out of commission for the day likely.

I have had friends with benefits who told me they are always sore the next morning. Even after 2 or 3 months of being FWB. Mind you FWB sex is still not "loving sex"