TOPIC: Is the 6" EG Goal truly ideal?

I didn't realize you were having a reconstructive surgery. I thought this was a primary. When you say fused skin, are you talking about a V/Y incision which has caused thick and wide scarring? The re-attached ligs could just as easily be scar tissue. Scar tissue often fills the dead space where the ligs were cut and grows up the shaft like a chord. It's just like having ligs again.

This forum has given many people: hope, support, encouragement, information about PE and so many other good things. IF, as a by product, some of its readers wanted to have bigger penises and went out too much by some one else's standards, then that is their choice.

How many people has this site saved so far from elist and loria? think about it...

The data on this site has helped its readers and even some of the PE doctors to improve their methods and in return, our members got the benefits.

Now, is the 6" Girth the ideal Girth? not for me!

8by8 wrote:

BigDecision77 wrote: Part of the reason why us men get these surgeries and scour these websites is because women dont know how hurtful it is to discuss prior exes penis sizes.

That's essentially true. I cannot think of a man who doesn't badly want to be the biggest his loved one has ever had. Society is still in it's infancy regarding understanding this taboo, and it's psychological implications on men. We're still at a joking stage, like there is a collective discomfort and quick, humorous dismissal. G-d bless boards like this and the PE boards, for acting as a quasi-therapist for us all.

I don't actually want to be the biggest. Lets say a womans pleasure in relation to penis size is plotted on a graph, I want to be at the top of the curve, before it starts to go down, as the penis becomes too big and the pleasure turns to discomfort and pain. Obviously this is different for all women, but generally speaking, for both Girth and length, I suspect it's lower than we think.

Obviously your GF is different, but for most women, in my experience I'd say a length of no more than 7" is optimal, maybe even 6.5". Yet I bet most guys would say they'd want 8". But in the case of most women you can't really grind pubic bone to pubic bone with 8" and that is, in my experience, the most important thing. In terms of Girth much depends on the age and if they've had children. But I'd say optimum is between 5.5" and 5.75", yet most guys, especially at this crazy place, would say about 6.5".

BigDecision77 wrote: Part of the reason why us men get these surgeries and scour these websites is because women dont know how hurtful it is to discuss prior exes penis sizes.

That's essentially true. I cannot think of a man who doesn't badly want to be the biggest his loved one has ever had. Society is still in it's infancy regarding understanding this taboo, and it's psychological implications on men. We're still at a joking stage, like there is a collective discomfort and quick, humorous dismissal. G-d bless boards like this and the PE boards, for acting as a quasi-therapist for us all.

Mustang2020 wrote: Now, is the 6" Girth the ideal Girth? not for me!

Exactly, different people will have different goals or ideals. It's silly to think there is one finite standard for anything.

8by8 wrote: Well, I'm currently 6.25 at the head, 6.5 thru the shaft, and almost 7" Girth at the base, before pumping or Jelqing, and no girl has ever not been able to take me about 6.5-7" deep, after foreplay and getting turned on.

I think the posters over there claiming 6" Girth was too much are kidding themselves.

Well keyword after "foreplay and getting turned on." Your Girth (presuming it's natural) is incredibly rare, and therefore the average, healthy, normal woman has probably never encountered one, or encounters them infrequently. You are much thicker than the average porn Cock. This is perhaps why some women may not be prepared for the size when the time comes, although with the proper preparation, I'm sure many can work their way in.

There have been men here who have stated that even the 5.5"-6.0" range in Girth can be problematic. It all depends on the woman, the level of arousal, and your technique (i.e. not ramming it in early).

Don't kid yourself in believing that 6.0"+ EG is not a lot. Because it is.

Hoddle, you said it much better than me thanks. I agree there are many other negative influence besides PhalloBoards.

BTW, I would consider a 180lb woman unhealthy, so I don't think that is a good example. But yes social programming does extend way beyond penis size. Ultimately though, you do have a choice of what you absorb, who you hang out with, ect..

To see where you stand ask yourself, would my life be better right now if I spent the last x weeks/months/years doing something else productive, as opposed to PE research.. If the answer is yes, it is time to revisit priorities.

Well perhaps there is an exception to "tall athletes" and the "ladies they court," but I strongly suspect the general population doesn't have as many porn dicks running rampant

I guess Dick size can be a matter of social/lifestyle context as well. Fortunately for me, if I were to have a penis even near your size I'd be set!

I honestly feel boards like this ultimately end up enticing more guys to have PE surgery and are anything but therapeutic. Sure everyone says its dangerous, and you should not do it, but almost all of have already had it done, or are in the process of planning to have it done. It is a subtle but powerful form of subconscious programming. The message is clear, a larger penis will make you a happier person. This is how you can get a larger penis.. You do not even realize you are being pulled further and further into this unhealthy obsession.

We can talk all day long but actions speak louder than words. Many of you will disagree with me but guys bragging about their larger size and then posting pics really does a huge disservice to new guys who don't understand how much of a gamble this is.

If you really want improve your self image without PE I think it would be best to work on self improvement that does not involve your penis.

Part of the reason why us men get these surgeries and scour these websites is because women dont know how hurtful it is to discuss prior exes penis sizes.

the thing is, I really truly love this girl dude. I'm on the phone with her listening to her rant about cooking for me with organic produce and duck right now lol.

And my length is just barely enough to hit her deep. She's a rarity, in that most ex's of mine don't want more than 6.5-7" deep at my Girth. But this girl likes being hit deep more than the Girth stretch. And I want another Inch or so to be able to really pound at her fornixes MORE than she needs, you know ?

Quote by H10: "We should never lose sight of the fact that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone."

Spot on...

And with women, it is their emotions that takes over. If a woman is into you, you can have a micro penis and she'll still climax!

eqstudent wrote:

8by8 wrote: ...It almost killed me when she saw my Flaccid of 6.5" long and about 6" around the first time when sneaking into the shower at her place, and she said it was average...

i could definitely see myself becoming a surgery/supplement addict, after stepping into the porn world, on a quest to be bigger than mandingo and Napier. I've always been a competitive perfectionist, and I want to be the biggest for my current GF, and I guess the biggest period. It's an ovsession cast upon me by society, and I'm going to attempt to beat it at it's own game, not settle for not being the biggest.
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So you have a GF who has a vjj that is so large she could perform in a TJ donkey show without breaking a sweat. This is not typical of most women.

You are then somehow placing blame on your desire to have the biggest Dick on society. That is your hangup, it has nothing to do with society.

Bottom line, you and maybe your GF don't think 6" is large but the link SO posted is correct, for most women 6" EG will be much bigger than they would find comfortable.

As much as I relish the anonymity of the internet for discussion of taboos, and the relative freedom and ease of such convos, here is where the internet's anonymity is a downside. I resent the utter lack of class with you speaking about my GF. She's a truly wonderful girl, great socially, morally, and intellectually. We're both actually kind of conservative (by 2012 standards and our age group) in the areas of promiscuity. She's just had some very tall, athletic boyfriends who had very large endowments. You'd never dare say such a grotesque thing in my presence. I hope you have more reservation in real life.

^haha no. they can do multi variable calculus and she can't lol.

8by8 wrote: ...It almost killed me when she saw my Flaccid of 6.5" long and about 6" around the first time when sneaking into the shower at her place, and she said it was average...

i could definitely see myself becoming a surgery/supplement addict, after stepping into the porn world, on a quest to be bigger than mandingo and Napier. I've always been a competitive perfectionist, and I want to be the biggest for my current GF, and I guess the biggest period. It's an ovsession cast upon me by society, and I'm going to attempt to beat it at it's own game, not settle for not being the biggest.
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So you have a GF who has a vjj that is so large she could perform in a TJ donkey show without breaking a sweat. This is not typical of most women.

You are then somehow placing blame on your desire to have the biggest Dick on society. That is your hangup, it has nothing to do with society.

Bottom line, you and maybe your GF don't think 6" is large but the link SO posted is correct, for most women 6" EG will be much bigger than they would find comfortable.