TOPIC: How Phalloboards & Dr C changed my Life - a phalloplasty Love Story

A seasoned member of the first PhalloBoards forum before it migrated here, I was rescued by this discussion board and its fine staff, and SO its most dedicated founder. Here I discovered that an impossible love might not be so impossible. And this thanks to physical and psychological transformation.

Upon investigating and researching widely, it became apparent that one viable and effective solution was on the horizon, the PMMA technique pioneered by Dr Casavantes in Tijuana. His prowess won him the legendary nickname of Doctor C.

For those who are new here this was my early account of explorations in Phalloplasty:http://PhalloBoards.websitetoolbox.com/post/turning-my-boy-toy-into-a-hunk-chunk-5386917

Now for the story.

In 2010 I fell in love. I was so much in love that I didn't even realize it was so.
We were fast friends and I quickly became her confident.

Yes, I know. You don't want to become a girl's friend or confident.
She tells you everything because you're like one of her girlfriends!

In the process I learned that she was what we call here a "size queen".
Yes, it hurt. She liked men in only one size, HUGE. Ouch! I was undone.

I was small, boy size, and kind of corkscrewed since birth. A lost cause.
She was 21, drop dead gorgeous and could have any man lucky enough.

Then I discovered this website, or actually its predecessor hosted elsewhere.
There was maybe hope, but not with any guarantees or certainty. Hope alone.

One year later, I had my first round of PMMA aka my first round of manhood.
Dr C and Wade were able to straighten my birth flaws and fully mask the twist.

This meant I was no longer a freak, and no longer tiny. Not even small at all.
And I could aspire to maybe once a future day be loved by the one I love.

Through many adventures and trials, we finally did get together at last.
I had 3 years of rounds with Dr C and was now quite thick and large.

She left her job and family to move overseas to be with me.
Never could this have happened in my original configuration.

Now our only problem is age difference, so I'm now getting younger.
Heck, turning back the clocks of time is easier than what Dr C does!

PhalloBoards and Dr Casavantes have literally changed my life.
Being with the woman you adore is more than can be believed.

Sure, size isn't everything. But to some woman it's very important.
I noticed in Asia it's important but in reverse, to not be too huge.

In any case Phalloplasty isn't vain and superficial, but can be vital.
Our main daily worry is dealing with people acting up out of envy.

So I want to thank S.O., the Mods and especially Dr Casavantes.
True LOVE is a rare thing and it's a shame to lose it due to size.

@HunkChunk, thanks for the story
"Your getting younger" are you on experimental anti aging medication? Or was this a joke? Please ellaberate
Thanks

Great post, HunkChunk. I can relate...from the opposite vantage. I've always been a "compatible" lady's man but, a few years ago, I met someone who I'm truly in love with. Small problem. She doesn't love me. The worst part is that it's over some ridiculous BS. We were dating, and everything was going great, until the BS started. So, as a way to cope and keep me busy, my already prolific womanizing soared to astronomical levels. Hasn't stopped. So with added volume came a multitude of experiences. Namely those with women who I didn't leave screaming in pleasure. Admittedly, it's a small group but, as a very perceptive man, I knew that if I was a little girthier, I would correct the "problem." So I came across the Elist site, was impressed with what I saw, and was considering it until I came across this site. Holy shit! I was taken aback by the sheer size and scope of the information here. Needless to say, I was saved from Elist's knife. This site definitely changes lives, but it also saves them!

I lost my girl because of jealousy and insecurity. I may be able to get over my jealousy and insecurity issues with more rounds- but I'll never get my girl back.
That my friends, is the toughest pill to swallow. Especially in my case if I hooked her up to a lie detector I would say she would say that she preferred my original 6.5x4.5 over the footlong monster and 300 pound Gorilla who came before me.
That hurts. Forever.

It is great to see you here again HC. I am so happy for you that you are in love and are happy with you lady.

You are as young as you want to be in your mind. Don't worry about age difference. It is only a stupid western social BS they enforce upon us and the women's lib brain wash their men. In Most other parts of the world, its widely accepted and encouraged that young ladies enjoy and marry and LOVE mature men. Notting wrong with that!

brock, I feel ya brother. I'll never get my girl back either, and that still hurts.
Stang, I dated a younger woman and although we were compatible with each other, going to events with people her age, and she going to events with older folks like me, just didn't feel very good. Can't put my finger on it but it was kind of like uncomfortableness. The generation gap has its consequences. Also it was tough talking about certain things that she hd no idea of bc she was so young.
HC, I'm glad for you, and I hope to feel that again some time in my life!

Reklaw wrote: @HunkChunk, thanks for the story
"Your getting younger" are you on experimental anti aging medication? Or was this a joke? Please ellaberate
Thanks

It was a joke

brock wrote: I lost my girl because of jealousy and insecurity. I may be able to get over my jealousy and insecurity issues with more rounds- but I'll never get my girl back.
That my friends, is the toughest pill to swallow. Especially in my case if I hooked her up to a lie detector I would say she would say that she preferred my original 6.5x4.5 over the footlong monster and 300 pound Gorilla who came before me.
That hurts. Forever.

Hi Brock,

It sounds to me like she loved you too. Otherwise she possibly wouldn't say that to a lie detector. Unless that big guy was a total Dick. In any case it can't hurt to revisit her? Once you've changed and gotten over the jealousy BS etc. Pissed-off girls like true repentance LOL.

I hooked back up with a number of ex's and none remarked. I was way way bigger but my current enhanced size erased their memories of before. Actually maybe it was because before there was "nothing memorable"? I'm sure I couldn't return to them tiny and have them not notice !!!

Cheers,

HC

Mustang2020 wrote: It is great to see you here again HC. I am so happy for you that you are in love and are happy with you lady.

You are as young as you want to be in your mind. Don't worry about age difference. It is only a stupid western social BS they enforce upon us and the women's lib brain wash their men. In Most other parts of the world, its widely accepted and encouraged that young ladies enjoy and marry and LOVE mature men. Notting wrong with that!

Hi Stang, its great to be back. You're dead on right, however my GF is in her 20's and a pure product of Generation XYZ+ ?!? Meaning only young people exist, others aren't even visible. Today kids only associate with their own exact same age group, sometimes within a year. The open minded ones will date up to 5 years up or down. Many won't. Multiply that number many times and things get complicated.

In Asia it's another ball of wax. Landing a well-off older man is like us hooking up with a super model. We're the status symbol, the trophy BF. It's our world turned upside down. We really can't compare the two, unless you move there. Tempting for sure, except don't get too girthy. I got kicked out of too many Asian beds due to being too thick. Some really freak out. I think it's smarter to act shy, turn off the lights, slide under the covers and work her up first, then start out timidly because if they catch a glimpse of a monster unit they're history.

Mustang, tell us your secret with the Asian babes? I used to strike out all the time, no longer, since I've obviously stopped trying lol.

HC

HunkChunk wrote: I hooked back up with a number of ex's and none remarked. I was way way bigger but my current enhanced size erased their memories of before. Actually maybe it was because before there was "nothing memorable"? I'm sure I couldn't return to them tiny and have them not notice !!!

You returned to exes and had sex with them and they didn't notice anything?

I had sex with 2 girls i had sex years before after round 1. They didn't say anything and i think didn't notice anything. It's not at all weird to me because it was years ago and my gains were only 0.4 inches.

Asians: Even with my tiny Girth - i wouldn't believe it but i noticed - 10% of asians felt hurt i couldn't help to notice. Do you have an (of course very rough) estimate how much Girth is good for asians vs for western women?

One of my exes that I had resex with asked me if I did anything because it was bigger. I told her no, that before I wasn't able to get a full Erection but now it was working better! She bought it but complained later that she was sore. She enjoyed it whilst doing it though.

Hi Dream,

Yes, that's a fact. I went from way thin to quite thick and none of the four noticed. One even said "you were always thick, I remember that well..."

Maybe they didn't say anything so as to not spoil the fun or end their access?
But actually I think that they didn't think it was possible to modify one's unit.
So they assume their memories are wrong and they correct their impressions.

The only girl who asked "what did you do, this isn't normal" was a Thai girl who had never seen such a thick unit. She also probably knew that locally many transgenders in Thailand have work done to their bodies, etc. There is an extensive penile reconstruction industry in Thai hospitals after jealous wives take action against unfaithful husbands. So she was an unusual exception.

True that the smaller Asian girls (read: Thai girls with tiny inner proportions) complain when a guy is large. This is also maybe due to the fact that they often have sex when not aroused. Therefore it doesn't stretch to accommodate a larger dude. For many of them sex isn't the same as for a Western woman but maybe a means to an end or a social conveyance.

FWIW

HC

My current gf didn't notice an Inch increase in Girth.. I think that lends validation to the argument we care about it more than they do.

brock wrote: My current gf didn't notice an Inch increase in Girth.. I think that lends validation to the argument we care about it more than they do.

Absolutely!!!