--- title: "Women and Size (Are they lying?) - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards" description: "For the 40+ years of my life, I have had dozens of sex partners. I was single most of my 20 and 30's. 2 1/2 years ago, for mainly vanity reasons (penis..." url: "https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/lust-love-vanity/10154164-women-and-size-are-they-lying.html" date: "2026-08-06T18:49:13+00:00" language: "en-GB" --- PhalloBoards - An Online Community to Discuss Penile Girth Enhancement General Forum Doctors Forum Username Password Remember me - [ Forgot your password? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/reset.html?Itemid=101) - [ Forgot your username? ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/component/users/remind.html?Itemid=101) - [ Create an account ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) # TOPIC: Women and Size (Are they lying?) ## Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705533](#1308705533) - **[havingfun73](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html "View havingfun73's Profile")** - [![havingfun73's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html "View havingfun73's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 17 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6689807) For the 40+ years of my life, I have had dozens of sex partners. I was single most of my 20 and 30's. 2 1/2 years ago, for mainly vanity reasons (penis Turtling, confidence, etc) I decided to have the ligament cut, and also had a couple rounds of Ellanse. Currently at 20 cc's. I was married when I had the procedures done. My wife said she didn't mind the enhancement, but said I was fine the way it was before. For the past 12 months I have been separated. I have had a half dozen partners over this past year. Every partner I have had, has always let me know that the sex is amazing. Every single one, has made comments such as (OMG you are huge. Your So Big. Your penis is unbelievable). Of course, I enjoy the compliments, its a bit intoxicating, and the women obviously have enjoyed the pleasure. As I reflect, I never heard these type of comments before. Previously, I might get comments as (Thank you, that was great, etc) Most of the women before enhancement, and when talking about size, would say it doesn't really matter. If that is true, and it doesn't matter, how come the partners I have had over the past year constantly make the size comments. They tell me that they have told their friends about my size. I am really starting to wonder if I was lied to in the past, as to not hurt my feelings. Even my ex, as I moved out, was like, go fuck everyone with that big Dick of yours. I remember when she said that, I responded "I thought size didn't matter" Curious to other thoughts, am I totally off base here? The compliments are a bit intoxicating, and probably one of the reasons, I am going to have more added in a few weeks. lol Last edit: by [havingfun73](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html "View havingfun73's Profile") Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705550](#1308705550) - **[Skeptical\_One](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile")** - [![Skeptical_One's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar1704847.png?1781856569)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html "View Skeptical_One's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/1704847-skeptical-one.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 4979 - Thanks: 613 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=1704847) It's a bit more complicated than that in my opinion - and I say this not just from personal experience, but from the collected wisdom of increased manhoods on this site from well over a decade: Size is overrated in the tangible sense to a woman. Ask them to "eye" the length or circumference of any household object and you'll be (either) surprised or disappointed in their ineptitude in this regard. Same holds true for men as well, this isn't a gender analysis. Point being, I've heard people exclaiming partners possessing 9-Inch + dicks and yet not even those exist in porn. Depending on the woman, a larger unit can be of benefit (i.e. women with cavernous canals, be it natural or post-child birth), but by & large, a woman is turned on by your **natural** confidence. The one you walk with, not what you pretend to walk with. A larger unit can restore that missing element in a man's repertoire, hence the reactions we get - maybe it isn't exclusively the size, but rather, us "letting loose" and having fun because there are no longer any hang-ups. That said, I'm not trying to downplay the effect of a larger unit. More surface-area to stimulate their nerve-endings isn't a theory, but quite obvious. I just wanted to stress that from my personal (and quite healthily vast) experience, size in-it-of-itself isn't the solution, rather, it's a tool in becoming more of the man you want to be. Food for thought. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705576](#1308705576) - **[havingfun73](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html "View havingfun73's Profile")** - [![havingfun73's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html "View havingfun73's Profile") Topic Author - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6689807-havingfun73.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 17 - Thanks: 0 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6689807) I had not really thought about it from the self confidence perspective. I suspect now, i may be digesting words of affirmation more closely to possibly validate my decision in PE. Thanks for the words of wisdom. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705596](#1308705596) - **[beardy07](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/5753931-beardy07.html "View beardy07's Profile")** - [![beardy07's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/core/svg/person.svg)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/5753931-beardy07.html "View beardy07's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/5753931-beardy07.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 152 - Thanks: 4 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=5753931) What size where you before you had anything done ? Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705601](#1308705601) - **[ToughPilllToSwallow](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6623920-toughpillltoswallow.html "View ToughPilllToSwallow's Profile")** - [![ToughPilllToSwallow's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar6623920.gif?1577703661)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6623920-toughpillltoswallow.html "View ToughPilllToSwallow's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6623920-toughpillltoswallow.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 279 - Thanks: 37 - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6623920) I think they’re usually either lying or uninformed. Lots of women haven’t experienced 6” Girth. When they feel it for the first time, they realize the difference. Plus they’re brought up to repeat the official party line that size doesn’t matter. However, SO is correct that having a bigger Dick makes you more confident, which makes you more attractive. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705603](#1308705603) - **[Blackkoala](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6762366-blackkoala.html "View Blackkoala's Profile")** - [![Blackkoala's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar6762366.jpeg?1664469708)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6762366-blackkoala.html "View Blackkoala's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6762366-blackkoala.html) - Pending Email Verification - ![Pending Email Verification](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank2.gif) - Here to help - Posts: 20 - Thanks: 2 - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=6762366) To answer this question all one has to do is to collect data from a data set of women of all different ages and body types and their preferred size of penis. Fortunately this can be done in the comfort of ones own home by viewing one of the many cam girl sites such as Cha*******. You can clearly see the trend for size selection of their preferred dildo size across the board. Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. ## Re: Women and Size (Are they lying?) 4 years 9 months ago [\#1308705639](#1308705639) - **[Dream](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4492370-dream.html "View Dream's Profile")** - [![Dream's Avatar](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/avatars/resized/size144/users/avatar4492370.jpg?1630969595)](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4492370-dream.html "View Dream's Profile") - [ Offline](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/4492370-dream.html) - General - ![General](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/media/kunena/ranks/rank1.gif) - Posts: 701 - Thanks: 74 - - - [ ](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/pms.html?task=new&recip=4492370) Please please please report Size before and after, that would give a lot of context and information for me The following user(s) said Thank You: [hund.olli](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/forum/user/6761534-hund-olli.html "View hund.olli's Profile") Please [Log in](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/login.html?return=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuajQucGhhbGxvYm9hcmRzLmluZm8vZm9ydW0vbHVzdC1sb3ZlLXZhbml0eS8xMDE1NDE2NC13b21lbi1hbmQtc2l6ZS1hcmUtdGhleS1seWluZy5odG1sP21hcmtkb3duPTE=) or [Create an account](https://www.j4.phalloboards.info/register.html) to join the conversation. 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