TOPIC: PMMA Sex Stats

Restoration wrote:
I think the average penis is 6 x 5 - give or take 1/4 Inch in length and 1/8th Inch in Girth

bp or nbp

Yesterday I asked a good friend (who is a huge man whore in the gay community here in so cal) what he feels the average penis size is and his reply was this " 4.5 to 5 inches showing and 4.75 Inch Girth." Followed up with " Girth is amazing I'll take that any day over length", then he said "and I know Cock, I KNOW Cock very well, I've had one Coke can Cock and it was AMAZING!"

He is an admitted size queen. Funny he doesnt care about length but hoes ( pun intended) for the fattest chubbiest penis he can find, funny how male and female size queens look for the same quality

Thanks Stevenrose. The issue that is stuck w/ me is not even so much the size, at this point, but more the weird skin unevenness and scars. The pic I posted up there on 2/4 just doesn't look normal to me at all. I also have a bunch of hard nodules left, but I don't want to mess with it any more since I have too many scars and in the Erect state, the nodules add size. I haven't even taken an updated Erect pic in ages because I don't even really want to look at it. It seems like I have lost a lot of size in the circ area. It never grew much there - and what did grow was mostly cut out last summer.

Thanks mischiefmkr. I think it looks ok from the top too. The EQ is better when I take the 5mg Cialis and/or citrulline & arginine (which I forget to take all the time & sometimes gives me headaches). On a normal day, there's literally only 1 guy who can give me a normal super boner without a pill.

Anyway, IMO... It's not so great overall though...well.. I lost all perspective. What would you make of this?

This is what I wanted them to fix with silicone, but I don't think they are interested in seeing me as a patient anymore (there hasn't been a reply in a while). There is a lump of PMMA still left underneath, though the bulk of it was cut out. There's a scar from one excision by my Dermatologist in the pic - but may not show up clearly. I don't know if it is even worth "fixing" again or if I could just put Radiesse around that area. I lost 1/2" of length too...so that kinda sucks. The one guy I hooked up with in the last month said I had a "great Cock" and it was really thick (it's like 5.2 at the base, max...and 5 mseg). He had a pretty small penis, so maybe that is why. My FWB has a huge Dick (7 x 5.5 in actual inches - but this is huge in the real world outside this board!) so I feel mildly insecure in that "relationship".

How did you get to 1500? I think HunkyDory had a high number like that. I could spend every day at a bath house and not get that number. Part of the problem is I had Dick problems from 30-35 so I couldn't do much, and gay men all seem conditioned from porn and apps to only want the top 1% of looks and body... and I am not in that stratosphere. Those are the only guys I know in the 1000s. They literally hook up 4x a day with different guys.

best sex i have is never with guys with big cocks. yes they are fun to mess about with but when it comes to full body experience, hair standing on end sex, it is never the donkey nob fellas. i will go out on a limb here and say that having a big Dick has ruined many a good man in my opinion because they have been treated as 'the human dildo' for so long they just disconnect mentally. and that is just not going to be a hot experience. ok, not all, but it seems much more commonplace.

I TOTALLY agree with this! Horse hung guys are horrible in bed - almost across the board - for exactly this reason.

I haven't been having so much random sex lately...partly bc the scene feels dead ... or something. I don't know what is happening. I am past the gay death age of 35, so this might be why. Or, did everyone get gay-married in the last year?? The only guy I hooked up with wanted to "date" and then texted me every day for two weeks before hooking up. He was nice, but that was a lot of work for this old slut.

The only hot guys I've seen are straight and in the gym. I did see one who my trainer insisted was checking me out - and I would have jumped on THAT guy like a starving animal, but I don't think he's right. I just happened to be by the water fountain and he was filling up his bottle. But, he was staring right at me as I was doing this bicep thing that made me look huge (I never see straight guys stare like that). My trainer is a straight ex-football player, so the fact we even talk about this is hilarious.

Ok posting this late has me rambling big time.

It's weird only having one woman for so long (20 plus years) after having 250 to 300 hundred women in one decade .......
In a way I miss the variety but not in a way.. it's rather odd

I know (or think I know), from all the different work I have had on my body surgically, I move toward "normalcy" in general - scar tissues softens, marks disappear, hyper pigmentation disappears. I look remarkably normal after all the work I have had and all the different looks my Dick has had. It is soft, the color it is supposed to be, skin that was loose did what it need to and contracted, and no one would ever know I had surgery for the most part. When the grafts were inserted, the skin stretched, blood vessels attached and grew, everything expanded etc.

I have had grafts put in, modified through surgery a year later, and then removed many years later, ligs cut etc. Not quite the same thing as you are asking but the principles applies. My Flaccid was rock hard and contracted for a long time after my grafts - 9 months to a year - it looked like a tree stump and felt like wood - but the tissue softened completely, my Dick relaxed and got less contracted and then hung normally. I had nerve damage on my ass from where they took out the graft tissue that lasted 8 years.

I think the time frame for these procedures is much longer for some guys than is frequently represented here, i.e. collegian kicks in at 6-8 weeks or whatever the time frame is - and then you will be set and have your final outcome. That maybe unrealistic and can freak a lot of people out if they don't have what they want at 8 weeks. I maybe comparing apples and oranges - but they are both fruits so maybe the same thing, lol. I hope that helps.

I don't know either, guess my opportunity to try is over since I just got married.

Is silicone sheets for scars? Where do you get them

@restoration - LOL - you really have to at least talk to the water cooler guy. whats the worst that could happen - he is a nutter or vapid pointless individual. he might be a decent fella, or even better. and lets be honest, its a very attractive feature when someone finds us jaw dropping attractive. or maybe i am a total narcissist (i'm not).

your Cock looks great. good and thick and chunky. you do not need to do anything to it at all. seriously.
if you insist on trying something, dont do anything permanent this time, you have been through a lot with it already. you could try a temp thing to see how you like it, such as Hyaluronic Acid filler, a couple of ml where you want it, and see how you go. if you like it, great, it didnt cost much, if you dont, fine, it will dissolve away in under a year or you can get rid of it immediately with a different injection. but basically, leave it well alone, its great and anyone who you are going to click with sex wise it is not going to because of your Cock.

dont be Hanging around with Cock obsessed vapid queens though - aside from being the most boring self hating people on planet earth they will do nothing for your self esteem or pulling power. they repel decent men. sorry but they do.

but seriously, it looks great. and at the ripe old age of 45 and 1500 men later, i can tell you, Cock size has nothing to do with good sex. best sex i have had in the past year, guy with a Cock about 4 inches long and wide as my thumb. i was buzzing for days after. go figure.

btw, i am not proud of the quantity of men, as I said, the quality has been very variable, how could it be otherwise with that number? and its only about 1 a week for 27 years, some weeks a lot more, some weeks none. i just like variety i suppose. despite being an all round great guy - lol - i suppose i am the opposite of 'good partner material'. and i am not a buffed adonis. HA ! i just find a lot of different types attractive. breathing, two arms and two legs. actually that last one is not an absolute requirement, there was the half a leg guy. he was handsome and a lovely guy. i am not joking.

right, enough digression. your Cock looks great, get out and enjoy it. or stay in and enjoy it on your own. but enjoy it !

I am one of those weird people who keeps track of who he hooks up with. How many, what I did, etc. I have typically hooked up with between 20-30 different guys a year (if I am not dating someone - but even if I am, I usually don't make it monogamous, mutually).

Between my first PMMA session and my Round 3 disaster, it was 11 months. During that time, I hooked up with 63 guys (more than double my average - triple in some cases, AND I am older now, which doesn't help...if I was 25 - it could be 100+).

It was 50% due to confidence and 50% due to gay guys being Dick pigs and size queens (i.e., the types who would've rejected me before now were interested - and these are Dick obsessed homos - which makes me shocked that some people need to go over 6" Girth to feel happy...I was only 5" Girth).

Then, in the last 9 months since the R3 disaster, I couldn't do anything. But, around late October, I still managed to hook up with 13 guys from then till now.

I miss my R2 Dick... this one still looks weird and my scars are starting to thicken in two places (I put silicone sheets on it).

R3 has to be one of my top 5 fuckups in my life...compounded by endless fuckups by doctors here. It would've been fine if that Dermatologist just removed the goddamn lumps right the first time...and then the plastic surgeon I went to for Repair then burned the wound with silver nitrate!

Well, at least maybe things are getting back to normal... as much as they can. It just depresses me that normal guys can have lives like I had for those 11 months - EVERY DAY and taken 100% for granted...and all I got was 11 months! I doubt that will happen again. I'm not that comfortable with the way things look & feel, and the size & shape is off because of the missing skin. Anyway, that was my random thought of the day. I can't believe how much PMMA improved my sex life...until it fucked it up royally.

Wow, I hadn't seen so much about gay sex on this forum, thought it was primarily a straight forum. So I will chip in on the average penis size and looks conversation.

I think I have seen a lot of dicks, so I confess. My huge gay experiences were from the age 12 - 20. Probably 200 - 300 hook ups and a few relationships, but the number climbed when it was solely money for sex and hit into the 1000 plus range. A life time ago - my activities later tempered by marriage and family. This means I saw a lot of variations in men, so I feel I can comment on size and shape.

I agree that the average Erect length appears to be between 5 1/2 to 6 inches length, followed by maybe 15% - 6 to 7 Inch, a few percent 8 in. and over.
15 % - 4 1/2 to 5 in. and a few percent lower. That is in the primarily caucasian range in the Western country I am in.

What is unique, is that there is sometimes no way of knowing from Flaccid size, what is going to occur. The biggest bulge becomes average. the smallest bulge becomes huge. That is where the difference is most noticeable - what it becomes. Also body size surrounding penis, changes the perception. Fat, skinny, tall short all adds a variation of perception.

It is funny about perception. I never cared how big or small a partner was. but cared how I was perceived and do to this day. Funny heh.

Restoration - fine Dick, above average.

Don't forget dicks have different looks naturally, regardless of PE. I for one - not a fan of big veins, and half a dozen other appearance issues. People have a gauge of what they find desirable. Smooth, cylindrical, just the right size, 6 x 5 or so, evenness of colour, matching sized head, Erect without looking red and angry - Not possessed by everyman, that is for sure. Evolution definitely placed function as senior to aesthetics, in my mind.

What I do know, regardless of what I or others, think is aesthetic in a Dick, sexual stimulation can begin way before seeing the goods, and then in passion, in the dark, who gives a f #&*%.

Our bodies do unforgiveable things that are not aesthetic and we forgive each other those "sins". We sweat, fart, burp, sneeze, snot. We gain weight, lose muscle tone, get diseases and so on. A non perfect penis is just another thing we live with and tolerate in one another. lol.

It is great to read your and other's stories, so open and out there. It is helpful. Not so alone.

Thankyou.


Stevenrose.