TOPIC: My depression and social anxiety: Help appreciated

tom kat wrote: hey meeb,

Personally, I think 6'' Girth would still look aeshetically good for 5.3'' length (maybe others can say what they think about that), It will make you look very thick, and you can still gain additional length if you want.

When i move, I plan on staying for a solid 2 years, but upto 5 if i have to ( I have worked out average accomodation and living expensies, and I should have the money I need in 2 or 3 years, I really hope that i don't have to stay for longer than 2 years, as eventhough I will have the money, it will mean that once i am finished I will basically have no money or savings left after the protocol and will have to start saving all over again once I return to australia , But i am willing to do this 100% but it will set me back big time, financially

thanks for your sympathies re my anxiety, you have mine too mate. Take care!

tom kat wrote: hey meeb,
I know how you feel, i have also contemplated many times especially recently, but things will get better ( i might be a hypocrite saying that given how i feel in myself). Your flaccid size is the same as heaps of the guys on here, and your erect size is also very good (a lot of the guys here will tell you the same). As for other peoples buldges (and i also tend to look at other guys pants region as well), you have to remember that flaccid size means nothing for predicting erect sizes, and some guys just have large flaccid penises that don't get much bigger when they get erect (they are 'showers'). And i know personaly 2 guys who actually stuff their pants for a buldge ( they pin a pair of socks to the outside of their underwear) There are people out there that LOVE to put other people down as a way of masking their own insecurities (even if it is a female joining in this particular subject). Ps. look at this thread, your erect size is bigger than the average penis size phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/the...35215#post1286635215

As for PMMA, (while i don't have it yet) it will greatly improve yor flaccid and erect penis. It will make your flaccid penis very thick and make it longer while flaccid (it prevents retratction and adds weight for a better hang) here is a helpful thread: phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/has...04236#post1285504236 . Because your flaccid will be much fatter (and longer), you will definately have that buldge you are after.

The other thing that will increase flaccid length is the lig cut, but that is generally not reccomended (but some guys will tell you that if you are willing to spend the money and time, and are happy with only flaccid length gains, then it may be worth it. But don't expect girth or erect length gains)

The other thing is Chem Pe, it is only in the early stages at the moment, but it could soon be offered by the same guy who does PMMA (right now it is offered only by 1 guy in canada). It is a protocol consisting of injecting multiple compounds in the penis and combined with some manual PE (very low intensity). A few people have had it done by the doctor in canada and all have reported great success (1 detailed log on this forum, 1 detailed log on another forum, and 2 others who are said to have great resutls). The main goal of it will be erect length gains first (with erect length gains, usually come flaccid gains) and girth gains second. Not sure if this interests you, it would probably only be for the most dedicated guys since it would be an ongoing process, unlike getting a quick procedure done for instant results. Me and a few other members are very interested in this and post everything we know about it in this thread phalloboards.websitetoolbox.com/post/che...or-7309795?&trail=15

hopefuly this helps you some. and try to focus on the positives for now, so many men have come here very depressed about their size and feel million times better after they get pmma. Just think about how much things will improve in the future once you get pmma (this is mostly what keeps me going, mainly about chem pe and pmma)

meeb wrote: Hi all, I knew I never had a big size, but I didn't know that the lack of a bulge was obvious with my jeans. With an incident that occurred over a year and a bit ago where I overheard people making fun of my lack of penis size, I have been extremely self conscious about my penis and realize the lack of bulge I have.

I haven't had any sexual partners previously, just girlfriends. I never used to take it further for the fear of my lack of endowment. But I used to be a fairly confident and cheerful individual before the overhearing incident.

Now I am the opposite. My self esteem is 0 (negative if possible), I hardly leave the house in order to avoid being seen in public. With the few times I have been in public, I am paranoid about people looking at my package and judging it. I also get very socially anxious where my chest starts to tighten and I start to feel sick. Basically, I am unable to function in society anymore. I am in my early 20s with a Flaccid length that fluctuates between FL 3-3.5 inches Flaccid Girth of 3.9 Erect Length 5.3 inches (sometimes 5.5) and Erect Girth 4.7 inches.
So I tried doing PE for a month to try and improve my size, but then I got struck down with hard Flaccid which has lasted all this while, which has prevented me from doing PE. However of late it has gotten a lot better.

Anyway, I came across the old phallobaords forum and game across some great success stories. I am thinking that I should go the surgical option as well since I am already so depressed because of my issue where I contemplate death.

I know some will say the problem is in my head, I have been seeing a psychologist for the past 6 months for this issues and some others which have contributed to the demise of my mental state.

I basically want my Flaccid size to be big enough where my penis would hang down and create a bulge in my pants as I sit down. I have analysed myself and other peoples bulge, this feeds into the fact that I don't compare and don't feel human some what. Because when I sit down, my penis sits up instead of Hanging down to create a bulge, which makes my lack of size extremely apparent, and I am very ashamed of this. i would like to get my Flaccid size big enough for it to hang down sitting.

I have read a bit about PMAA injections where it improves Girth, but it also seemed to help in Flaccid size. Then there is obviously the surgical option.

Any tips and information would be appreciated. I thought I would share my issues. Sorry if what I have written has not made any sense.

tom kat wrote: meeb, I think you should get PMMA first as this seems to be greatly impacting you life. You can always gain length after getting the PMMA (whether that be Chem Pe or an extender), but in the meantime you will still have a fat Dick and bigger Flaccid (as well as still having a decent Erect length). I will send you a PM in a moment.

ps. my current size is about 6.25 length (non pressed) and 5.3 Girth (at the thickest point, just above mid way).

ilovetofu wrote: Greetings Meeb from a fellow Ozi. After reading your post, I can empathise with you and try to make some comments that I hope are helpful.

While its normal for any man to have a large part of his sense of self-esteem or self-worth tied to the state of his manhood, overhearing a few people making negative comments shouldn't alone take you from "a fairly confident and cheerful individual" to "my self esteem is 0 (negative if possible)," unless ALL of your sense of self is downstairs, which it clearly isn't. So you must have other issues that you're not wanting to or willing to discuss, and I wish you luck and good progress with your psychologist.

Sometimes just having a qualified listener can make a big difference. I once saw a Scottish psychologist about an issue and she was amazing. She wasn't able to give me that much advice, or tell me much that I didn't already know, yet she was a good psychologist and the few sessions I had with her were very cathartic and helpful. I was finally able to make changes to my ways of thinking and be "okay" again.

As for your actual penis size. It's totally "normal", so at least 50% of all men in the world share the same size as you!

Many people try to feel better in themselves by putting others down. This is a very common practice, but it only provides short-term relief because they have not at all addressed their own issue(s). Instead they've taken the easy way out by projecting onto someone else. I have experienced this many times, often from people who are jealous of my own success, or from people who are simply negative about themselves and life and the only way they know is to put others down. Many people do this quite unconsciously.

So its helpful to know that the comments these people have made, are not really a reflection on you. In fact some of these people may even be smaller than you (assuming they are males). Some could even be stuffing socks down their pants. There are several methods you can employ to boost your sense of confidence and self-esteem that will make you far less reactionary when it comes to how much emotion you give to the opinions of "others". You'd be surprised how many people say they don't care what other people think, but with some simply observation its easy to see that they are actually very concerned about what others think - some are even obsessed about it.

As for the bulge in your pants. Many men are above average yet show no bulge in their pants. Ask yourself certain questions - What are you trying to prove? Who are you wanting to impress? Will a bigger bulge in my pants really help? Do what you want to make yourself bigger downstairs, but keep in mind that this is only one part. Don't ignore other aspects of your physical or mental self.

If you are wanting a meaningful relationship with a nice girl, as opposed to hitting the clubs and finding a fuck buddy, then you should appreciate that the vast majority of women are far more concerned about your personality, your looks and general physique than how much bulge your packing. I know many quite beautiful women whose boyfriends are average or even below average in size. In fact, one very pretty Thai friend of mine has even joked with me about the smallish size of her partner, but she laughs and says it makes no difference; she says the sex is very enjoyable and she just loves him.

Best of luck on your journey Meeb - I will follow your progress with interest.