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title: "Ways of Coping Without Sex - PhalloBoards - Phalloboards"
description: "Does anyone have any ideas on coping, when you have had an unsuccessful PE surgery and sex is no longer an option? If you can't find the right surgeon to fix..."
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#  TOPIC: Ways of Coping Without Sex

##  Re: Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1270462749](#1270462749)

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##  Re: Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1270513970](#1270513970)

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 @whitesnakeguy:
Have you thought about telling your story in your own thread? I don't know if you did in the old Board, if you did I will try to find it.
Why can't you do it with Alter? Since you are searching for somebody else.
How have you lost everything? Can you at least masturbate?

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##  Re: Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1270539885](#1270539885)

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 This sounds difficult. Would you mind sharing what has happened? you have come to the right place for support from a great community and there may be others who have experienced similar who can help you through it.

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##  Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1270462602](#1270462602)

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 Does anyone have any ideas on coping, when you have had an unsuccessful PE surgery and sex is no longer an option?

If you can't find the right surgeon to fix your surgery or (one who is without a doubt capable of doing it without leaving you damaged for life), what do you do in the meantime?

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##  Re: Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1270513893](#1270513893)

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 Thanks Miracle, If anyone else out there knows of a qualified reconstruction surgeon other than Dr. Alter, please contact me, I am in a very bad way and I have litterally lost everything.

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##  Re: Ways of Coping Without Sex

   14 years 10 months ago [\#1278611942](#1278611942)

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 Is sex really a necessity? As you get older, you'll have sex less and less. After awhile I'm sure for older ppl it is non-existent but they still have long fulfilling lives

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