TOPIC: If you did not tell your gf/wife about your enhancement procedure. What was reaction after GE procedure?

I'm confused. You're asking yourself questions and giving yourself PE advice?

I am planning on going through with a GE procedure with Dr C soon. I do not plan to tell my fiance that I am doing this for a couple of reasons.1. I am about 5.3'' erect in girth right now and 6'' in length however my fiance and I have been together for about 4 years and I feel as if she needs something bigger as there has been a clear difference in our sex from when we started (1st year together) and now. I ask her all the time if she is satisfied, she says yes, but then again she has only been with 1 person besides me. We have played with toys as well that are larger than me and she has been able to take it enjoyably. So in the end, I'm a bit insecure and want to pleasure her as much as I can.

2. I have always had an interest in the question "would my fiance be more pleased with a bigger penis". Of course I cannot get the answer to this straight up as she will tell me what I want to hear or honestly, what she believes but doesn't really know (since she has been with 1 guy other than me). So asking this always yield "you are the biggest, you have a big dick, you are fine". She used to cum all the time during sex, now maybe once a week maybe. I have thought of many different ways to get my answer: blindfolding her then secretly using a larger toy. This didnt work because the toy is a good inch or some of more girth than me so she quickly notices and objects for wanting the real thing. I've thought about getting an prosthetic penis for those who dont have one (medical grade, expensive and everything) but have opted not to as the main reason she can tell its not me is due to the temperature of the penis and of course the size. Finally, (call me crazy) I have considered having her "try" a different guy with a larger penis but that plan is a no go as any leading questions I ask her for this plan is always quickly answered with a harsh (but loyal) no and she has no interest with being with anyone else. She doesn't even entertain questions of the sort and I dont want to risk sounding like a cuck (no offense) because I am not. Ultimately that could never work as I dont have the to have my fiance sleep with someone else, especially a bigger someone else, and her enjoying it or realizing that bigger may be better for her. Honestly, if she was a more "liberal" woman on the sexual side and was open to 3somes I may have in the past set up one with another guy to get this answer by (after consent to an unsuspecting kinky threesome) blindfolding her under the assumption it was me and then allowing our agreed, 3rd person come in and take over to gauge her reaction and experience but again, I don't have the for that. And again, this would of happened after clear CONSENT that she would be cool with everything that COULD go on.

3. I want to take all the credit for the size .One of the things that excite me/I'm interested in is noticing the reaction I will get from my fiance after I get the procedure. I always envision it to be something of which she will question herself, her own vagina or best case scenario she will assume she has "revived" her sexual drive back to when we were in college. I am not sure what to expect but the last thing I want is for her to suspect something is up and inspect my penis with scrutiny (hoping it will all come out aesthetically pleasing). By doing this, I will be achieving my goal of finding out if she would be more pleased by more girth or a bigger penis without her feeling guilty or cheating or doing something really crazy in my opinion. The key is that she has to be unsuspecting. She knows i have a "work trip" coming up. She knows I will be gone for about 2 weeks (want to be sure my after care is done correctly so I will be in a hotel a week or so after the procedure). And I have scheduled all of this to return the week her cycle starts so at most I have about 3-4 weeks of healing time that seems really natural. With this, I am hoping she will assume the lack of sex for almost a month is the reason why my penis feels so huge or good or whatever it will feel like. Long story short since I have now added these details, do you think this plan will work? I'm at 5.3'' erect girth and about 4.5-4.7'' flaccid girth. Assuming I gain lets say a generous inch in erect girth which would put me around 6-6.3'', is this a clear noticeable difference to a partner of 4 years who just had sex with you a month ago?

And of course, if you have done something similar with your significant other, please tell! Thats what this was originally posted for.

Also, does your wife/fiance/gf ever get used to your new size?

jaquez wrote: Have you gone through it?

Not yet. We're dialing in our goal before I go in. Are you josh Williams too?

Or may be its a normal "getting bored" in a relationship which happens to BOTH men and women. Most people feel less excited about their girl a few months after they meet. In a marriage, its of course much more evident...IMHO.

Prosthetic penises, "bigger" men fucking your fianc'?

You do realize this has absolutely nothing to do with her, and everything to do with you, right? It's clear that she's happy, otherwise she wouldn't be with you. Trust me, if a woman doesn't want to be with you, she'd be LONG gone by now, especially in today's age.

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How many guys here have had it done and didn't tell their eife/long term SO? What was the outcome? jaquez I think you're taking a huge gamble where the odds aren't stacked in your favor, as it relates to your intended deception. If she walked in with tits that were %30 bigger you wouldn't be asking some serious questions? I'm not trying to be demeaning or rude but it sounds like you have some issues that you should sort out before making any critical decision like this. Are you ok with losing her? Having something go wrong? Having it too big for her? Having your sexual dynamic change? I agree with @thehulk but you're not just making a decision for yourself, you're changing something that someone else loves and uses. My wife would leave me the minute she found out if I did to her what you're planning to do to someone you love. Healthy relationships require a lot more than lies and a bigger Dick. I would strongly suggest going to couples counseling or at bear minimum telling her the truth. Then again I can't see things from your perspective and maybe everything will turn out fine. Either way there will be repercussions from your actions.

Dickwitman wrote: I would just have a good story ready to tell in case things don't go as planned (i.e. Infection, etc). Is there a plausible reason your work would take you to Tijuana ? I'd be more concerned about her finding out you're lying while you're gone than after the fact.

Yeah I think that is the safest route as should anything be awry then I can blame it on the story. Yes there is reason, as I type this I am away on business so its actually really normal for me to have to leave on business for some time. As far as Tijuana, no but San Diego? yes. I'm going to tell her where I am but am not intending to tell what I am doing. Of course I guess if something goes really bad I will come clean but I doubt that will happen. Probably best to go with an injury excuse.

jaquez wrote: Not sure who that is. In the real world? Either way my name isn't josh Williams. Why?

I don't want to frighten you and this might be a bit like when Bruce Willis learns he is dead in The Sixth Sense, but you are Joshua Williams.

You have the same IP address as him and answered questions addressed to yourself as him. You are definitely him.

Either you have multiple personality disorder or you've broken the forum rules!

chester wrote: Prosthetic penises, "bigger" men fucking your fianc'? You do realize this has absolutely nothing to do with her, and everything to do with you, right? It's clear that she's happy, otherwise she wouldn't be with you. Trust me, if a woman doesn't want to be with you, she'd be LONG gone by now, especially in today's age. H

Yes I know this is my issue. My own insecurity. However I am still sure I want to do this not only so I can be more fulfilling for her but also for myself as well. So not telling her is not the way to go is what I am getting. So would you guys still not recommend me going through with it if I tell her?By the way I am 24. Does that matter as far as the procedure is concerned?

Also, how often do irregularities come up? Even with proper after care?

jaquez, if you want to skirt the issue, you probably could get away with saying that you got the P-shot while in San Diego. You can have info ready about how it is supposed to increase size, etc. I can see that working as long as there are no big aesthetic issues. But make sure you have your story locked down. I'm sure you know how well women can shoot holes in stories.