TOPIC: Really Hurt !!!!

@ dirk dangler I totally see where your coming from and appreciate your insight but I feel like I have to try something . I've been dealing with this insecurity for a long time it's constantly something I thought about over the years .

@ warriorswarlordWhat's your stats?

Here's 2 photos u can see my fat pad . these we're taken when I weighed around 238 now I'm about 247lbs .

I'm definitely going to do more research before I make a decision. I'm also not looking forward to seeing her at work again .

u can't be to bad if u had sex with a women who was tight in the passed,

dude .. either she is fucking with your mind trying to get over some power in te relationship (could be actually root in her own insecurities if she is not that attractive..) either she is sizequeen and has no clue about Dick size (some girls get an even more distortioned idea of penis size due to porn that we do .. when you hear some saying that all their ex had micro penis you know there is just something wrong ..)

anyway you are DEFINITELY not small .. i would actually consider you a big or in the biggest part of the average at least..

just deepthrow her while asking her if she still think its small,

@ warriorswarlord

One thing to keep in mind when things like this happen it can resonate to our core being because we associate being "small" with loneliness which is really scary.

It's important to understand this because it not the alleged "small penis" that freaks us out but the idea of being alone. The "small penis" is just circumstance, if it wasn't the penis, it would be something else. When you can see that as the core issue are then able to see all the options available to move past the root of the issue.

I'm not saying to not do PE, but as CPW said, don't do it when you are emotionally charged up.

I'm curious what happened after that event. Did you guys still hook up? What she said was a highly unusual comment. It's so rude that either she's a sociopath (in which case walk away anyway) or she is testing you. I can't qualify that last idea, but women do strange things to fuck with men.

For example I'm small 5'7" I had alot of rejection (perceived) and It fucked me up. After a while I was so low about it I gave up, meaning I didn't care enough to even acknowledge negative comments I experienced, more importantly I no longer believed any of them so I stopped feeding it.

It gave me a strange confidence where I would push back a little and tease the women who would make such comments. Surprisingly the opposite happened where I slept with a few of them (not all) but it certainly changed my perspective.

Few things Ive learned... (take it or leave it)

Don't always take women's comments at face value or to to . They are always 2+ moves ahead in their own chess game.

Just because a man has a "smaller" penis doesn't mean that they don't want to or wont fuck you. Sex is more complex than just physical surface contact. And even if it was I would then learn how to get really good at certain techniques and learn to be good at sex. (be humble)

Unless your penis is abnormally small, you will get laid more by focusing on the many other things that fulfill and turn on women rather than keeping the same mentality but with a larger unit.


All that being said it would be nice to be larger, hence why I'm on PB but I wouldn't assume it will be a life changing experience, (I could be wrong) but more importantly I wouldn't go into it with that expectation.

Can it be that I have a wide body so it makes my penis look smaller . I also have a big stomach I am consider obese . I will post full body pictures . I know my penis is small . it looks short from the side and I had trouble filling woman up in the past from what I can remember .

That's my height. 5 feet 7 inches.

You are by no standard small. Please make her a forgotten memory and devote your emotional energy toward things & people that are relevant. Good luck.

If she tells you you're small, stick it in her ass. That will usually change her opinion.

Herbert West
I'm not really sure I've measured the correct way .

My bad, that wasn't clear,

I got rejected a lot by women because of my short height (Small) In which I would receive similar comments like warrior received in an "out of the blue" way. When my confidence what high I would try and turn it around and sleep with them.

Thank you guys your words are really uplifting my spirits .

Hahaha okay i see, I thought you were referring to penis length in inches