TOPIC: IPP options

This is a forum, we converse on the forum! It will take you a couple of minutes to take an upload them.

Why would your children see the photos? Just delete them once they've been uploaded! I can't even understand why the dermal graft scar would be something you wouldn't want your children seeing. It's just a long scar!

There is nothing absurd about my accusation. Even if you aren't Chad, you must be aware, that there is nothing absurd about it. You have both have the same surgical history, in the same order, at the same time period, with the same Dr's and the same complications. You have to recognize the odds of these things happening to the same people are astronomically small.

You say you don't know Chad, yet claim he led you into having these surgeries, which seems contradictory. If you only know him via his on line presence, then again your suggestion that my accusation is absurd just makes no sense. Chad flies of the handle when asked questions he doesn't like. You'd have to admit you do come across like him, right?

You must also be aware that Chad lies through his teeth, so again, why would not believe someone claiming not to be him, when they sound very much like him, be an absurd thing?

Your reaction doesn't make sense for someone who has been led into all these poor surgeries by Chad. Surely you should at least understand why someone would think you are Chad!

So just post the photos and we can be done with this. You can post them straight from you phone I believe. Just nip to the bathroom, take one of the scar and one of the penis, upload and then delete them.

Back from dinner...I wonder if Chad is watching the game too?! I have 3 kids (does Chad?), and am not going to post pics for you or anyone, but I will do you one better, Sherlock. Right after the game, you can Skype me at 'papabearpk' and see whatever you want to see...as long as you agree to admit that you were insultingly disrespectful, and wrong. That way, I don't have to hear your conspiracy theory about doctored photos and whatever other garbage you want to continue to spew. And at the same point in time, you can just agree to never comment on another one of my posts that...like all of my initial posts...comply with the rules and spirit of this forum, unlike your accusatory and demeaning intrusions.

Ok, say you wont show the photo's.

But what about the other questions. Do you not acknowledge that the odds of two people having the same run of surgeries and complications, during the same time period and with same Dr's are extraordinarily high? If so, what is stupid about thinking you are Chad Hedman?

Do you not acknowledge you seem to know Chad's business history better than the average patient should?

Do you acknowledge your posting style, is incredibly similar to Chad's?

Finally, why would you be so angry over this kind of accusation? Surely you can see that there is an incredible amount of circumstantial evidence that suggests you are him. You know his history and therefore would be fully aware of why a Moderator of this forum would be extremely hostile to someone they strongly suspected of being Chad. Let's not forget, this forum only exists because of Chad! If it wasn't for the devastation and carnage that guy caused to line his own pockets, then SO would never have had to go to the effort of starting and often funding the running of this forum. You keep acting butt hurt, but even an innocent man in this case would fully understand why he's under great suspicion and why he's being treated with hostility. At no point have you said anything along the lines of "I can fully see why you'd think and the similarities between our cases are uncanny to say the least and I get why you'd be so anti Chad..."

Firstly, I don't use Skype and even if I did I wouldn't want to communicate with you off the forum. But secondly, what is midnight for you, is actually around 5am in the morning for me, so you were talking to yourself.

You asked how I would like you to prove how wrong I am. I've given you, in the context of an internet forum, a very reasonable way of doing this. All you have to do is post a couple of photo's, it would take you about 2 minutes. One of your penis, as I'd know the scars to look for and another of your dermal graft scar. That's all you have to do. It's not exactly a big deal is it and given your experience of the unscrupulous nature of the PE industry, surely you'd understand and be happy to do this. Don't worry about conspiracy theories, as you can just right the date in back ground and if you upload straight from your phone, they should come in unedited jpeg format anyway.

A couple of further questions:

Wouldn't you agree that yours and Chad's stories have uncanny similarities?

Given you "know" Chad Hedman and what he's like, why would it be stupid to deduce you are him?

Is Chad Hedman not known for being reactionary to posts on forums he doesn't like?

It seems very odd to me that a victim of Chad Hedman, would get so angry over an accusation that he is Chad Hedman, given the incredible similarities in your stories. Surely any reasonable person would fully understand. Anyone with experience of Chad knows he has no problems lying and pretending he's offended by false accusations etc. So again, I don't really see why you'd be so angry and offended, as surely you'd fully understand why I'd be so suspicious of you. After several poor surgeries, which Chad has led you into, you'd think you'd be pleased that there are people still out there trying to make sure he can't hurt more guys or that he has to confront what he's done.

I look forward to seeing your photos.

You have my Skype contact information. Period.

PS: I will stay on Skype until midnight CST...about 45 more minutes...if you are serious.

Sorry to hear about your penis woes.

One of the leading specialists in IPPs is Dr. Eid in NYC. I believe he does virtual consults, so you could start there. Your situation is very complex...and I don't know anything about Elist implants. You could potentially have Girth enhancement with Dr. Casavantes in Tijuana, though with your scar tissue - that might be more complicated so you'd need to ask them. I think that is much safer than Dr. Elist, but I don't really know about the scenario you described with all of the stuff going on.

Some implants expand in length and Girth (the AMS LGX), but Eid doesn't like that one. My own Urologist also doesn't like that one. They both use Coloplast implants and find them more reliable.

Depending on where you are, you might just want to consult a male sexual function specialist / Urologist and see what info you can get.

Midnight, and no Castle2. I guess 'the Chad got your tongue'.

Hunky, The alloderm (Rheinschild) hardened, and caused consistent discomfort. The Dermal Grafts (Krakovsky) were placed over unknown remnants of alloderm, and simultaneously absorbed (causing retraction) and created a pocket for major infection between the Dermal Grafts and partially necrotic alloderm. Dr Elist did a great job of removing all the alloderm and Dermal Grafts, however my penis was severely compromised and I developed a biofilm infection on his silicone implant that was helping to stretch my severely retracted penis back out of it's 'shell', necessitating it's Removal, more retraction, and loss of sensation. Not 'pretty'...trust me! PMMA seems like a popular PE 'agent' on this website, however I am left to decide between an IPP only approach, or combining an IPP with Dr Elist's seemingly more viable silicone implant as a 'blocker' aimed at preventing retraction, and hopefully adding a little Girth in the process. Good luck to you, and let me know if I can ever help you. Have a blessed day.

You could post photos of your penis, with the scars and also your dermal graft scars. Have something with today's date in the photo. Obviously I'd be going by memory, but I'd be able to if it was Chad's penis and scars, as he has a big hole in his groin.

You have Chad's attitude, that for sure!

Not sure what you mean, Hoddle10, in that everyone...including you...has a screen name they use to protect their privacy, and use private messages as appropriate. Please feel free to PM me accordingly. I have been very open and honest in all my posts, and your innuendo to the contrary is uncalled for. I am a single dad in Texas who has spoken nothing but the truth, and neither harmed nor imposed on anyone. FrankTalk.org is a very positive, constructive, and supportive website. I had hoped for the same here.

Thank you, Restoration. A good friend of mine on FrankTalk.org (which specializes in severe ED discussions, including IPP doctors) also recommends Dr Eid. I am meeting later this month with Dr Elist, and will try to set up a 'cyber consultation' with Dr Eid. Another concern I have is that I am still in my 50's, and I worry about the 'life expectancy' of an IPP, relative to my own personal life expectancy...and sure don't want to go through this twice. I am praying for a happy ending to this 'horror story'! Again, thank you for your encouraging thoughts and words.

Perhaps you should be more direct, and I thought we were on PhalloBoards. I have posted honestly about each of my failed PE surgeries, while neither advocating, nor attacking, any of the doctors involved, as 'going negative' isn't going to improve my condition, nor help any of the men here. I have a decision to make. FrankTalk.org has been very helpful in this regard and, as I stated in a prior post here, I hope for the same from PhalloBoards, given what I understand to be the objective of this website/support group.

Are you or are you not, the former owner of MyNewSize?

Samsdad,
I am also very sorry to hear your situation. As someone who has recently had a dermal fat graft removed, and still healing - I can't imagine alloderm, dermal fat grafts and silicone going in and out of my penis.

Do you mind me asking what caused the most trauma to your penis - the insertion operations or the Removal operations? Also with the alloderm and the fat graft was graft death the reason for the Removal? I am asking because I am still healing and trying to stay positive.

I wish I had something to add about Elist but I only know him from this board.